First relationship and the first time. I need some advise, cab you help me?
I am 19 years old and I am currently in my first relarionship.
It is kind of a long distance relationship. He lives two hours away.
Before the whole coronavirus started we saw each other almost every weekend.
I am still a virgin and I am not completely ready to have sex yet.
He knows this and understands it.
However I have been thinking about 'the first time' and to be honest I am terrified I'll either end up pregnant or get an STD. Obviously we will be using condoms, but I am still afraid.
I have decided that I want to have a copper IUD as birthcontrol, but I would also like to ask him to get an STD test done before we engage in oral sex.
But how do I approach this subject and ask him without him geting offended? This whole relationship thing is new to me and I don't know what to do.
Do you have some advise?
by the way, how often should you get an STD test?
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