I think you should tell him and then let him decide how to proceed. if you say thanks but no thanks you'll never know if he would have been okay boning a married woman. You should also be honest about whether you will ever leave your husband for him so that he can keep his emotions in check. I would say that most married people never leave their spouse for whoever they're having an affair with. Honestly it's a really tough call actually
Nice job... looks like you got yourself into a pickle with this one.
I think you are going to have to tell him something. He is going to want to see you more often, on holidays, etc.
Or, dump your husband you are cheating on (divorce), stick him with the kids, and you can play with your new boy-toy all you want. There is a reason you are there.
Thanks for the MHO. I hope it all works out.
Tell him and also tell your husband because if you can cheat on your husband then you clearly don't want to be with him and if you can easily leave the tinder guy then he clearly means nothing to you either, so put them both out of their misery and let them know exactly what you are.
Anyone who cheats is scum of the earth. Maybe you never should have sparked up something with this guy due to the fact that you're married, with kids. Now you are going to break this guys heart and contribute to trust issues because you decided to be a dirty whore.
MHO right here
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You should've told him long ago..
He was suppose to be a one night thing
Ok but that didn't last obviously.. Just tell him, if you want to be fair..
:/ okay
You should tell your husband.
I hope he has been using a condom every time. How often do you meet for a hookup? Hopefully the sex was great but you should tell him.
Of course and soon. That or dump him. It couldn't last forever. Even if you decide to dump your husband for him if he wants a relationship with you he will have to put up with the divorce. And kids? That's a lot to take on- might make some think twice. You'd be better and safer telling him either way, whichever you want.
Ask your husband for his opinion.
He divorce me and take the kids so no
Maybe you should have thought about that before cheating.
@DestinyElizabeth04 Exactly.
should have told him before you got involved. your too far into this now. you have a hard choice to make: tell your husband you been stepping out on him and accept the fallout whatever that may be or break it off, this affair lets call it what it is...
You dont need to. Just tell him its hook up only and if he dosent like it its over
Are you actually married? If you are, then you should tell him that.
If you feel you must continue your affair I suggest you tell him so he doesn't ever get attached beyond that. Its only fair.
LMAO... no, better yet. Tell him " official what?" Tell him "you're nothing to me but a fucking sex toy... did you think I was your girlfriend? Not going to happen EVER ! You can fuck me, or you can leave". How's that?
Tell your husband. See what he says. But for real, is this a fantasy of yours, or is this real?
and then some people complain about slut shaming. Slut shaming is the best thing in the world.
Okay?
Leave
Don't tell him your married with children. If he's mean he'll use that to keep you / force you to stay.
Leave nicely and friendly. But don't mention your family.
Wow you have been cheating on your husband? Yeah you need to tell the guy. He thinks you are a good person if he wants to be official.
Why did you do this in the first place?
My husband is older and he's tool smaller than what i was used to.
And you didn't know this before marriage?
You are under 18 and married with kids? Me thinks you are a troll.
Man I am noticing so many girls on this app cheat lol..
Ya. I think it's to define the boundaries of your relationship if you want a friends with benefits only.
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You definitely need to tell him... who knows maybe he'll still want to keep things going with you... at least until he finds someone who wants to settle down with him.
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