Why do some men say "I want to eat your pussy" but then literally never do?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing a guy for 9 years and he would say it all the time but not once did he ever even attempt it. We eventually split things off 4 years ago. Now my boyfriend does the same thing. He will always say it whenever he is talking dirty but in the 2 1/2 years we have been together he has literally only eaten me out 7 times. But then will complain because in the beginning I was constantly giving him head but now I out right refuse because he never returns the favor and it's literally just him getting pleasure while I am left with nothing. One of my boyfriends exs said he did the same thing to her as well. Is it pure laziness or have I just gotten stuck with a man who doesn't like eating pussy? He claims he enjoys it and says that I apparently made him feel like he was bad at it but when I ask him how I did that, he never has an answer. He says "It was a long time ago, I dont remember".

[Paul09]

You seem to be attracted to morons. Change the type of guy you go for. I believe 100% in giving and receiving. These guts are selfish, lazy assholes, please stop giving them a long chance.

[ecfresh]

Because he is a liar and lazy

[ecfresh]

Let me guess, he spends lots of time playing video games

[Asker]

... he does... lol

[Aaron_Stone]

@ecfresh thanks 🙏🙇 for giving reason to make girl stop guys from playing games 🎮👾 which has no relation to his lack of desire to do oral. He must be disliking it. Not lazy.

[ecfresh]

@Aaron_Stone this question relayed to the other 2 questions the anon user asked in a 10 minute period. Did you read those other questions? If it’s a healthy relationship women should encourage guys to play video games because they understand it fulfills that need in him and also they know he will not abuse that time or sacrifice other responsibilities in his life. It’s clear that’s not happening in the case of this question. Of course he dislikes eating her out. Like I said he is lazy and that means he is selfish and makes decisions for his own self gratification

[Aaron_Stone]

ok👍

[Asker]

What were the 2 other questions? Could you possibly post the links to them, as now I am curious! I only posted this one question but if there are questions similar I would like to view them :)

[ecfresh]

Wish you would have asked yesterday. Within about 10 minutes three related questions from pink anon were posted. It’s tough to track users that post multiple questions when they post anon

[Asker]

Right, I didn't knowing you had commented on them or not. I will try keeping my eyes peeled for them!

[ecfresh]

Is my frustration justified? ↗

[ecfresh]

Why do some guys want to be the decision maker but do literally nothing else to contribute to the home? ↗

[Asker]

Thank you!

[ecfresh]

You are welcome. Just confirmed they all were from pink anon with same age range and all about long term bfs.

[Asker]

Right. I mean, I kind of wish I knew who she was so I could message her directly. But given the depth of her concern I can see why she would go anon. I only went anon because I dont like posting sex questions up when people can see who I am. Simply because I am super active and know a lot of people on here personally who have met my boyfriend and I dont want them knowing details of our sex life lol

[ecfresh]

Oh I get it completely and totally support the anon feature. In addition to your valid reasons I know there are a lot of desperate guys on here and any girl who even mentions something sexual is like inviting 30 or more PMs. Hope he comes out to eating you out, it’s really fun once he gets into it. Happy cinco de Mayo !

[Asker]

I think he will. I mean once he actually does it he enjoys it. It's just a matter of getting him to actually do it. I guess I should have mentioned in the original question that he also is a very 'simple' lover. He likes what he likes and doesn't really like trying new things. So our sex is pretty bland aside from the occasional random kinky moods he gets into which is maybe once every 2 to 3 months. Happy Cinco de Mayo!

[ecfresh]

Hey on the bright side that means he has a lot of exploration ahead of him sexually and when he does open up I’m sure you wouldn’t mind playing along as he learns new things or wants to try them out both inside and outside the bedroom😆

[Asker]

I sure freaking hope so 😂 I dont know how much longer I can go before I cut out some ribs and eat my own pussy 😂😂😂

[ecfresh]

Ha ha that’s funny

[ecfresh]

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[Asker]

😂😂😂

[joyhit6]

I think may be they want sex and literally can say anything to get sex.

but when actually they get sex they can't do anything great other that just cumming quickly.

but some men will do what they say it depends on the person.

and literally eating pussy is one of the nicest thing in sex if one knows how to do the same.

[spartan55]

I will never understand guys who won't do that... tragic.

[AndyOh]

Wow, maybe you attract them like people who attract alcoholics. If you were my girlfriend, I am sure you would be telling me no because I want to get in there and eat your snatch all the time.
Find a better guy or deal with the frustration you have now for a long long time!!

[yaboiziek]

he could've been saying it purely to fake sexual confidence, and was probably disgusted by the thought of it when it came to actually pulling through

[quailqueenuwu]

Is it legal to eat cats at your place? If not then that's probably just his conscience taking over his mind

[Aaron_Stone]

Are you being sarcastic or lost on this website. This site has adult content so make sure you're here with full knowledge of kind of content shown here.

[Dargil]

A tactic to keep the blowjobs coming, I'd guess. I do it every chance I get.

[bubbakong2006]

They are fools give me the chance and I won’t stop eat you whenever you pkease

[genericname85]

cause they have learned that saying that will get them laid. even if they never end up doing it.

[Thatsamazing]

Depends. Most of us want to lick shaved, clean pussy, attached to a girl who's attractive with slim thighs that we can actually fit our head between. Perhaps he is one of those of us thusly described, and doesn't feel that you fit that description, or something. I have no idea what you look like and have never talked to him, so obviously this is a guess.

[COMMODOREII]

That is crazy.

[andy530]

I don’t know. I’d do it daily if I could I don’t understand why some guys don’t

[esotericstory]

they think you dont want to probably, in the moment

[askmewhy66]

9 years? Girls your man should love to satisfy you. And devour that pussy

[Cannuck22]

9 years with a guy and he never went down on you. Omg

[ZombieP1ow]

He's an idiot. Eating pussy and ass is the best

[SuperSkunk42]

I love eating pussy to insure my partner gets off incase I can't hold my self together

[Anonymous]

I've never had that problem. I go down on pussy regularly.

[Anonymous]

To trick you so you blow their 🐪

[Anonymous]

Could quite possibly be that you smell down there.

[Asker]

I'm self conscious enough that I ac tree usually thought this myself but whenever he does eat me out he says "You taste so good" or "You smell delicious" but he just doesn't do it often at all. That and the fact that he did this to his ex too raises suspicions.

[Opinion Owner]

He could be lying. Never know, but if they’re not doing it often then that’s a sign that (either way) they don’t enjoy it that much.

[Aaron_Stone]

Yes I agree he must be disliking giving oral and don't want hurt her. So he's lying about smell and all stuff.

[Aaron_Stone]

The fact that he did on ex but not often on you clearly shows he is lying about smell and taste. Change diet 🍳🍎🍌🍒. Clean it before sex

[Asker]

@Aaron_Stone no, no, no. He wouldn't go down on her either. He would tell her he wanted to but never would. Sorry if that wasn't clear.

[Aaron_Stone]

Then he doesn't like to give oral.

[Anonymous]

Every one like to eat , but some pussy stinks like ass , so they refused maybe

[Asker]

See, being the self conscious person I am, I actually thought this. Like maybe I smell bad or something. But knowing he did this to his ex as well and the fact that when he does eat me out, he enjoys himself and talks about how good I taste or how good I smell so that's not it.

[Aaron_Stone]

Smell it yourself. Maybe He is lying for not hurting your feelings. Which person in right mind would tell straight on face of girl that her pussy stinks 🙊👃.