I had sex with my house mate in lockdown. I’m panicking and don’t know what to do help?

[Anonymous]

I share a house with a guy and a girl. We’re all friends and having been living here for over a year together. So we’re in week 7 of lockdown and things are getting very boring. So last night the girl house mate went out for a late night jog so it was only me and the guy left in the house. We were watching TV, drinking wine in our PJs together like normal lockdown evenings. We were watching game of thrones and a sex scene came on. It kinda got me horny and in the mood for sex. From out of nowhere my house mate just looked at me and said shall we fuck? Instantly said yes without even thinking. We went to my room, took our PJs off and had sex together. It was all heat in the moment as he didn’t even put a condom on or use any protection. I just assumed he was going to pull out. He suddenly said “I’m going to cum” but then he grabbed my throat forces himself down on me and cummed inside me. When he finished I think he realised what he’d done as he left my room to go in his. I then had instant regret and was panicking so much. He was my friend, my house mate we shouldn’t be having sex. I should of said no at the beginning. I can’t believe we’d done that. But I’m now even more scared of the fact that I’m pregnant, I’ve cried so much in my room. I haven’t actually left my room as I can’t bare to see him. I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m so scared and worried about the whole thing. Someone please help or give me some advice

[Drumlin2001]

You need the morning after pill. Get to a pharmacist ASAP.
You choose to sleep with him. Sounds like you didn't set down any ground rules in the moment. Whilst grabbing you by the throat isn't the way i would treat someone, juat because you may not like dosnet mean he did anything wrong. You had a spontaneous moment. You now regret it. Learn from it.
There are plenty of friends/housemates who have casual sex. It dosent have to be a big deal. If you had used a condom you probabpy wouldn't be feeling like this.

[genericname85]

calm down. you're good. you very likely didn't get infected by this. you actually very likely already got infected and didn't even notice and are already immune. the chances of that are fairly high. even if you now got it, you probably will not have symptoms. and even if you get symptoms, you're very likely not gonna get bad symptoms. if you get sick, stay at home and restrict your contact to a minimum. that's the common sense thing to do. don't panic.

[fit_single_mom]

you made a mistake but its not the end of the world... go the pharamacy and talk to the pharmacist than talk to your two roomates

[Asker]

Thanks I went to the pharmacy and got some pills to stop the pregnancy

[Grkgod12]

There is nothing horrible about what you did !
Have you spoken to him yet?

[RJJ33666]

Just relax first of all take care of the "pregnancy" problem, you probably won't be pregnant but their is no harm in taking precautions, pharmacies are still openand second you having sex with your house mate is just normal, being in lockdown for so long can cause many feelings and desires to come up. You are lucky to have someone to take out all the sexual frustration and if you dont want to do anything any further then its your choice

[Levin]

These things happen.

Don't worry. Sort out the practical. Make sure you don't get pregnant. Go to the pharmacist, and get the morning after pill. Work out the emotional stuff later.

[MrTuxedo]

Well, the cumming inside part is really fucked up. He shouldn't have done that, and you shouldn't have let him. Of course, there are chances that you're pregnant now, and only thing you can do is go to the doctors or just wait and see if you develop any symptoms.

As for fucking with your house mate, it wouldn't be such a big deal if he hadn't cum inside you... you should definitely have a strong talk with him.

[boggboss]

Are u able to get the morning after pill are pharmaceys open

[Asker]

Thanks I went to the pharmacy and got some pills to stop the pregnancy

[boggboss]

Hope it works out

[Asker]

Thanks

[Danny_dan92]

You’re a little sex fiend aren’t you?

Get yourself the plan B pill

And get ready to be his sex slave

[letssee89]

Go get Plan B to be safe. And do it sooner rather than later.

[Massageman]

Calm down.
Pray you aren't pregnant.
Talk to him.
Don't do it again.

[one1wild00]

Sounds like you guys need to talk about it. If he did get you pregnant, what would you want to do? what would he want you to do? You guys need to work this out together especially if you've got awhile yet in lockdown.

[skittles2017]

Next day pill? Pharmacies are still open

[Asker]

Thanks I went to the pharmacy and got some pills to stop the pregnancy

[skittles2017]

Great. Hope you'll be fine from now on. Pllaning on leaving the house when lockdown finishes?

[Asker]

Hopefully and yes I think I’ll bee moving to an all girl house

[skittles2017]

Why? Why aren't you staying in this house and try a relationship with that guy?

[Asker]

Haha no I don’t like him like that. He’s just a friend. I friend that I regret having sex with

[skittles2017]

I understand. Does the other girl from the flat knows about you two?

[Asker]

Yes I told her what happened and she’s helped me so much with everything

[skittles2017]

Good. Glad to hear. You're moving out with her? Or away from both of them?

[Asker]

Not sure yet. Well have to see

[skittles2017]

Do you hate now that guy?

[dudeinohio]

If it is within the window, still... take the emergency contraceptive... morning after pill.

[COMMODOREII]

You should get a pregnancy test to make sure.

[Twalli]

You probably aren't pregnant

[aroundhere]

wish you could have said "no" to him
now he should take the responsibility if he made you pregnant..

[SilverRain92]

What was that guy thinking about? I guess that for now he is scared too

[SilverRain92]

He probably doesn't love you, he was just in heat. So do the test as soon as possible

[MrTaboo]

Easy, do her too. Sister wives.

[CubaPirate]

In the words of Cher " If I could turn back time"

[Jmmmfi4]

Just relax

[Romeocuck]

talk to him about it and about his wrong reaction afterwards

[ghost_wolf]

dont you have a pill to eat?