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Sex with chubby girls?

I'm a chubby girl and a virgin, and I don't know how sex is gonna work when I'm chubby. I mean big ass and big thighs mean not as easy acess and if I went on top I would probably crush the guy. so sex seems kinda impossible to me and it's scary.
I keep thinking about the time a guy told me that if we had sex I would crush him to death because I'm too fat
I'm only 10 kg overweight and I workout a lot and watch what I eat
but sex seems scary to me because of my extra weight
I don't know how the positions are gonna work
any experiences?
advice?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Traditional Missionary is one of the most popular and versatile positions you can try. It’s achieved by the receiver (the person receiving the penetration) laying on their back, while the giver (the person penetrating) lays on top of them and enters. Elevating the plus size receiver’s hips by placing a pillow or two under them, lets tummy flesh fall back making access to the genitals more available. This pillow “trick” will make just about any configuration of giver on top/receiver on the bottom position easy-peasy.

    Receiver on Top — traditionally called “Cowgirl” — is when the giver lays on their back while the receiver straddles their hips and lowers themselves down so the giver can enter. A lot of people find that this position is great for deeper penetration and for stimulating the g-spot or the p-spot (prostate) nicely. If the giver has a larger tummy, again using those pillows to prop up the hips works wonders. If the receiver is larger, they are in a great position to hold up their stomach or spread butt cheeks. If sitting upright on your partner is challenging for the receiver, then laying forward onto the giver’s chest while they thrust is not only easier on the back, but can create more intimacy between both of you. These are just a few ways to start. But don’t stop there, don’t let the size of your body stop you from trying any position that floats your boat. You may need to refine the position to better fit your needs, but there’s nothing wrong with that. We all deserve to f*ck our fat hearts out. Hope it helps. Any queries?

  • Trust me, there are Men who will have sex with just about anyone. That guy was an asshole and should ignore him. I know a few guys who married girls twice their size.

    Unless a guy has brittle bones or something you will not crush him. Men have a harder and stronger bone density. My ex girlfriend was like 190 lbs, she was 15 or 20 lbs heavier than me (I don’t know what that is in kg) but I thought she was sexy as hell and we did about every position you can think of. If you feel self conscious just bend over and let him do you doggy style, trust me 99% of straight men will love that. My ex would just do that without even caring what I wanted to do, I think she liked it because I could get in deeper and she liked that or she just knew guys love her big butt, me included.

    • You may not want to do doggy your first time though, just lay back and let him enter you missionary so he can be slow and gentle. Trust me though you’re worrying about nothing

Most Helpful Girls

  • Okay as a chubby sexually active girl I will give you the best hack for being on top.
    Imgine him sitting on the bed, when you are on top straddle his lap so your legs are either side of him. I tried that with plenty of guys and no one ever told me I was too heavy

  • Morbidly obese women have sex all the time trust me it’s possible with you just being chubby.
    It’s only impossible if the dude has a pinky for a d*ck.

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  • It's not going to be a problem everyone is different sizes and shapes and not everyone can have sex in all the positions in the Karma Sutra but there are positions that people can use no mater what restrictions you gave.

    First of all traditional Missionary when your legs are spread eagle you'll find your thighs are mostly out the way.

    Doggy changing the angle you present your pussy to a man helps access i. e. arch your back or wrest on your elbows or chest instead of on your hands.

    Finally your worry about being on top of your using a cowgirl position then your only putting weight onto the man at the end of the downward stroke. Any other position your on top TBH 10kg overweight doesn't sound a massive amount and your probably not focusing it on any one part of your partner so don't worry hell I've been underneath a 3som with a plump woman and lived to tell the story!

  • You will be fine. Trust me on this. I had a girlfriend like you for over 2 years and we were both virgins who then fucked like bunnies.

  • 10 kg is not going to make a difference, you should not worry. On top of that, chubby girls are far more fun so you really have nothing to worry about.

  • I have only been with bigger girls (275lbs and up) and have had no problem.
    I have had them ride me, and 69 me, and while sure, they're heavy - at that moment I don't care.
    If you are afraid your ass or thighs will be in the way, doggystyle allows for deeper penetration even though you have a large butt. And if you're embarassed you are facing away. But missionary, where normally a man might want a cushion under your butt to lift it up, big girls already have one! Also it's an ego boost to have your lover look you in your eyes as they are inside you.
    10kg isn't a lot of overweight. You'll be fine. Your biggest problem isn't your size, but your own fear of your own size, if you get what I mean.

  • Well I personally love bigger girls❤️

  • Honestly don't worry too much. You will realise your size won't affect you sexually and even make it better a lot of the time

  • You’ll be fine. You won’t crush anyone. I had sex with a chubby girl before and it was completely fine.

  • Just ten kilos could not be a problem but personaly i like thin or moderate. If you put pics comment can be easier related to your body.

  • Your fears are unfounded. Don't be scared. But you have to lose weight for your own health, if not for good sex.

    • I think my health is good I workout 5-6 times a week 5 times a day I love working out and I watch what I eat it's not like I'm laying in bed all day and eating junk food

  • hey i love chubby girls, and i love big ass, big thighs
    you just sound like a perfect match or me
    if you were my woman, id like to do you everyday haha
    would you like that?:)

  • Dont worry about that just cuz one guy told you that you would crush him.. sex with bigger girls is as much fun as with any other girl.. n big ass n boobs are always a plus point..

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