Would you guys date a bisexual girl?

[Anonymous]

I feel very sad and anxious, and I feel like I am punishing myself everytime I feel gulty for liking other girls. I don't have romantic interest in girls, I just like them phisically and it is pretty much less that the attraction I have to men. But I don't know, I feel like men will reject me if they know this part about me, I don't feel free to show myself as Bi, in social media. I like this guy, who probably suspect I am bi, I don't think he really care about it but in my heart, I feel very scared of being rejected or not being taken seriously, or being seen as promiscuous just because sometimes I feel attracted to girls :'( I am so sad you know, this hurts my self steem, and I really think guys don't take seriously a bi girl, I really feel like a good man won't want to be with a bi girl. In theory, my self worth does not change just for my sexual orientation, but I can't help feeling this way, so rejected, so judged, so devaluated. I just feel like they will think I am a crazy and promiscuous girl just becuase I am bi and I am not! :'( I am very sad, can you advise? I am a very loyal girl, but I feel like I need to hide this part of myself to be in a straigh relationship whchi is what I want. I really really don't like girls in a romantic way, I know myself very very well to know I will never want to date a girl, so please don't advise me this, I don't care about girls feelings, they are just too clingy, too caring, too unpredictoable, to feminine (even masculine ones are too emotional) and I really love masculine energy, I really like boys and their masculine body, I am not even interested in sex with woman! I jsut feel attracted sometimes and I like to admire, but what do you guys think? what do you think about bi girls

[MrOracle]

There are guys who wouldn't like it, but I think most guys wouldn't care. I've dated bi-girls before and it was fine. This is really going to be a person-by-person basis, but in my opinion it's probably something you should mention early-on, before either of you get too attached, and if he's got a problem with it, and you can't seem to resolve his issues quickly, then let him go and move on. Don't take it too personally and don't feel like you need to change - just be straight-forward and make sure you find a guy who isn't going to be bothered - which, again, I believe, is most men.

[RJJ33666]

Being little attracted to girls is normal and not a bad feature of a woman. Many would not mind to date a bisexual woman because usually bisexual women are more understanding than normal girls. And dont be sad or anxious about being attracted to girls, if you are truly attracted then accept that fact or else you will have trouble even dating guys. Also i am guy who is dating a bisexual girl and she is great. I know that you will also be a very good womam to date and guys will be lucky to have you

[RJJ33666]

Be strong, you will find someone who will accept you for who you really are and won't be bothered by your small attraction to girls

[CoffeePossum]

I would and enough boys would too, the ones who don't are way too insecure for you anyway

[Asker]

thank you so much :'( I am so sad but this make me feel better :'(

[CoffeePossum]

If you ever want to talk to somebody just slide into my dm's haha But don't worry, you'll meet someone who loves you for who you are

[drsatan]

Most guys like the idea of dating a bi girl. A few close minded guys with fragile egos will tell you that you're promiscuous, but why the fuck would you want to associate with such narrow minded assholes like that anyway?

Keep being you and just chill, you'll be fine. I'm actually a bit surprised you haven't discovered for yourself that most guys like no girls. It's a lot easier for no girls than no guys, anyway!

[Stellargasm]

I think most girls are a little bi

[integrale77]

I personally would have no issue dating a bi woman. I can imagine a bi woman can find there are aspects to dating men and women that differ and the worry would be a bi woman would start missing them aspects of the other sex. Personally if these aspects where to become a problem I would want to talk about it before it would lead to relationship issues and then work our way through it!

[cicchis0]

Yes, there's nothing wrong with that. I had a girlfriend that appreciated the beauty of other girls and admitted to having been a little experimental in the past. She was still a devoted girlfriend. I liked it. I found it a little arousing and it made me comfortable that she understood that my appreciation of other girls' beauty didn't diminish my appreciation of her or indicate that I wasn't devoted to her.

[sawno]

Brutally honest? I secretly prefer it but only by a bit. Straight or Bi is both fine to me, but Bi opens up more dynamics or types of things we can mutually enjoy. For example if i see a hot girl she can enjoy it with me rather than finding me rude for looking.

[Cortaine]

You may like girls. But the man you're dating should trust that you like HIM even more.

[Dargil]

Double Standard Department. I do not find bisexual women repugnant like I do Bisexual men. I could give my rationale but that's how I feel. I never dated multiple girls. I was always "serially monogamous". I expect my date to settle on me. So if she's "bi" but is satisfied in our exclusive relationship, I am OK with it.

[Asker]

awesome! that is the way I feel, I am also monogamus and I like to make my partner feel special :) thanks for your response

[Apope16]

I already have. My ex was bisexual. My current friends with benefits is bisexual. And the girl I've been dating is bisexual. It changes nothing

[Drumlin2001]

It wouldn't be an issue for me. As long as they're monogamous it dosent matter

[TCredo]

Hi. I am heteroromantic bisexual... so yes I would date a bi girl. I can only ever see or want to be in a relationship with a woman (bi or straight) or a transgender woman (bi or straight) but I am also sexually attracted to males - but only sexually. Sounds like you might be the same (heteroromantic bisexual). I struggled with it when I was around your age but learned to accept it and be good with it. There's still too much societal judging done on what is "normal" or whatnot... I say F that... be you... like you... love you... so hang in there.

[letssee89]

Why would her being bisexual be a problem? If we're in a monogamous relationship, there's no issues to worry about in that regard.

[mandowood]

My wife is bi, I don't care at all, actually makes it easier because I am a people watcher and she will point out the hot ones, lol

[NorthwestRider]

Getting married to a bisexual girl

[lukevas]

I have dated bisexual girls. I don't see the problem. It's even great because there's a lot of conversations you can't have with a straight girl. So, if he rejects you just because you're bi he didn't deserved you in the first place

[Gryft]

Only if you tell me you find me more attrative and love me the most! :p

[Dchrls78104]

Sorry, no. I'm interested only in natural born and fully heterosexual females.

[skittles2017]

Most Men love more bisexual women because secretly we hope that one day we will have a threesome MFF

[dudeinohio]

I would never date a bisexual girl... been there... done that... she cheated on me with another woman.

[RJJ33666]

Be strong bro

[Asker]

So sad to read this :'( I promise cheating has nothing to do with sexuality, it is about your values and the idea that you have about relationships, I am very very loyal, I don't want an open relationship or anything like that

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah i would date a bi girl. Why not? *hugs* i hope you feel better. 🌹

[imredheaded]

I see no reason why not to. She would still be into guys (and therefore me) and it opens up the possibility of a threesome with another girl. Wins all around. Though you do say you wouldn't be interested in sex with a woman, so that makes me wonder if you are bisexual or you are just a regular heterosexual person that can appreciate when somebody is attractive.