Is he a virgin too?
His dick is almost certainly bigger than 2 fingers, and you could try 3 (not flat like a paddle, more squished up together like a prism) to ease from 2 to 3 ...
But it seems quite odd that if 2 fit fairly easily, a penis can't get in at all.
I feel like he's not aiming his dick properly. But i mean what's happening when you say it 'won't go in'. Where are you feeling pressure, what's exactly happening?
Ignore mr. razor cut, focusing on that is sure as hell not going to help. I've taken precisely one girl's virginity. Yes, it hurt her, but she also began having a huge orgasm almost right away. Focus on the good part.
no he's not a virgin, yeah the razor cut thing kinda scared me lol but thanks i'll try the prism thing. And meant that like I was tight I guess, I didn't feel anything but he couldn't get it in I don't know why
I mean … you should feel him trying to get in, otherwise I feel he's not pushing hard enough in the right location.
yeah maybe he needs to try harder lol
Forst, let's assume you're not suffering from Vaginismus. Consult a gyno if you think there is a need.
Next, condition your mind to be ready for pain "like a razor cut" and blood. (It doesn't mean you will, just be mentally prepared).
Finally, talk to your boyfriend and try one more time. This time assume Missionary Position, make sure you're wet after foreplay and use a lot of lube.
Then during penetration, he push it in with one go, with the full objective to penetrate you fully.
Give it a go girl, be brave. 😝😝😝
a razor cut pain? oh god yeah i changed my mind about losing my virginity lol
LOL! That's what my girlfriend told me after we lose our virginity to each other. But hey, after that we literally has sex 2 to 3 times DAILY for the next 6 months... I think she liked it after all 😄😄😄
oh god lol well that's good if she likes it now
It will eventually he just needs to make sure your pretty wet and it should go right inside.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It's normal. Have you tried using the spoon position with you backed up to him? That way you can control the penetration and press as hard as needed to get him inside. Cowgirl is another alternative but you have to control all your weight and if you make a mistake, things could get painful.
How'd you get it in?
we were just in a more comfortable place and he fingered my first til i was very wet and we also used a lubricated condom so it just went it and didn't hurt
That's generally the key: very hot and wet with lube. He can even use two of three fingers if needed.
Not going in? Is it blocked up in some way?
i don't think so? maybe im too tight
Maybe he doesn't know exactly what hole to go in? Cos there are 3
haha i dont think that's what it is, it went in a little last time but we couldn't put all of it in
Have you tried sitting on top of him as he lays on his back, then you hold onto his dick with one hand and guide it in as you put your weight down on it. Use plenty of lube and the power of gravity.
It took me like a dozen tries to lose my virginity proper, coz I couldn't get the right angle or position for "entry", and by the time I got it, I was so distracted by the whole ordeal I couldn't stay hard. Not to mention the condoms, I still to this day have a "difficult" relationship with condoms lol. So what I'm saying is, if he's new to sex then it's normal to have a period of "figuring it out". Once you both get it, it'll click and become as natural as breathing.
Lots of foreplay
@Asker Well done! I'm proud of you.
thank you!
How are you using the lube? Are you putting it on him or you or both?
Has he and or you tried peeling yourself open let him to slide him in? (May pinch or stretch a bit the first few times till you are used to it.)
He's a diabetic and can't get it up he needs to see a doc. That's what happenes when you have sex this young
Karma is a bitch
he's not a diabetic, he can get it up, and there's nothing wrong with having sex at our age. In fact it's supposedly better
No its not he doesn't even know what to do the same with you besides your both not married to each other
y u so mad bro i didn't ask for your judgement or approval
You should talk to a doctor. There may be a medical reason. The species would not have continued if insertion was not easy.
Yes it is he doesn't know what he's doing
he's not a virgin
He's probably never been with a virgin
he lost his virginity to a virgin
It means he has not enough hardness
Maybe he is huge
He needs to stop trying to put it in cold and do his fucking job getting you properly aroused.
No matter if you are a virgin or bot or how big or small his dick is... with proper arousal your vagina will expand to allow any human penis in without issue or pain.
well when he fingered me he said that i was very wet
just because your vagina lubricates itself doesn’t mean it’s properly aroused. as a female you need mental stimulation you need the fantasy in your head to be built up the romance the emotional connection and you become comfortable and aroused and your body will naturally allow itself to loosen up and become ready for sex
Depends on the size of his package. I’m a virgin with an over 7 inch very long thick big penis. It goes up to my belly button, I expect to have some problems when I have sex
He seems amateur, immature.
he's had sex before, i haven't
Haven't you watch pornos before?
yes but they're usually not virgins lol
Guide him in.
how?
How? OMG! hold his cock rub over your pussy then ask him to thrust in slowly.
omg lol I don't know I've never done it before
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