I don't know how to open up during sex, i'm stuck; please help?
There is no 'emotion' or passion going on. It's a clinical thing. This is something i have always done, i have never been able to associate emotion to sex. I am not religious nor was i brought up with sex being taboo
I just don't like being taken for a sucker, which is what's happened in the past, and before people have used their sexual attraction as a way to play me for a sucker. So i vowed never to let that happen again; however that has seemed to have worked a little too well and i've now gone from one extreme (wearing my heart on my sleeve) to the other (Keep everyone at arms length, even my own girlfriend at times)
I find it hard to communicate this to people as no-one ever seems to fully understand why i do what i do. I did what i had to because the alternative was not something i'd like to revisit
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