Are you more submissive or dominant?

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This question means in a sexual way obviously

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My personality is dominant, but sexually I'm a switch. I tend to be dominant with women and more submissive with men. I would like to blind fold a guy up and tie his hands behind him in a chair and play with him, so lean submissive but could spice it up in different ways. But I dont find total dominance or punishment over men appealing the way it is with women. Wouldn not be into spanking a guy or anything like that. Hmm... I could slap him a little though, I don't know lol

But I'm not a true submissive, because I'm kind of assertive in my submissive act. I tell him I'm his bitch or ask him if I belong to him, etc. I guess I've also just never been with a truly dominant guy, so there's that. But it's usually me guiding the terms of what submissive looks and sounds like, opposed to him taking control of me and telling me who/what I am and what I'm going to do. (That would be fun though I think. I get off to porn like that) I usually have to nudge guys in that direction.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

submissive it's hard to be dominate when your wearing a minidress or strip down to bra and panties or wearing a garter and ordered to suck dick in your stocking and high heels... or ordered to take off your panties before you go out with your man... or ordered to your knees to give pleasure to your man and that will happen often

Hypnos0929 · Accepted Answer

I stay on the dominant side but I'm careful about it, which can make it tough for me to come off as serious. I feel like my natural dominance comes from a place of defense rather than assertiveness if that makes sense.
I've even been told that one of my biggest flaws in bed is I'm not rough enough, which annoyed me at first but also made me worry if I'd come off as scary if I tried harder.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Accepted Answer

I'm pretty much a switch although these days I'm leaning a bit more towards the sub side. In my last relationship I was about 75/25 split between dom/sub. Now my interest in being sub puts it more around 40/60. at least for foreplay and kink play. When it comes to actually fucking a girl I do like to take the reigns and make her feel all small and helpless underneath me.. hehe

zollo · Answer

Traditionally more submissive but that doesn't mean that being Dominant isn't really fun and exciting!

tellmeeverythingplz · Answer

I'm so busy in my life that the last thing I want is to have to think or be in charge during sex. I need someone to take on that responsibility. Once we're intimate I hate it when I get asked... so what do you want to do

I want to just feel and experience it, in the moment. All talking should be long before this point.

jemismyname · Answer

neither really. or both. it depends on the situation. i don't like to typecast myself into any particular role.

Apple1996 · Answer

I'm super dominant, I'll occasionally give up the control but that is difficult for me to do

neilsmart · Answer

It's hot when a guy dominates me

Elliegirl · Answer

I’m a sub girl

EmbraceThePain · Answer

More dominant.

Jjpayne · Answer

I'm going to say whatever she wants me to be

MrTuxedo · Answer

I'm definitely more dominant, but I like occasional switch every now and then.

ecfresh · Answer

Dominant

Aislin9 · Answer

Equality for all.

svengalikc · Answer

Dominating always, I can't explain it but I love to be very giving to a partner and almost spoiling them but at the same time very much so dominate always.