How would you defend this girl who has this kind of a sexual past even though she is an amazing person?
She’s 24 and lost her virginity at 20/21 with one 9 month relationship before me (now 7 months). The previous 18 months before me she slept with 6 guys. 2 were one night stands where she invited the guys over to her apartment sight unseen from online dating. 1 she accepted friends with benefits from a guy for 2 weeks because she really liked him and was hopeful. The others she slept with within the first 2-4 dates. A couple of these guys were only a month apart.
What bothers me most about her sexual history are the following...
1. 2 one night stands, but most of all how they happened in which she invited complete online dating strangers to her apartment and had sex with them. I can understand meeting somewhere and really hitting it off with someone first and wind up back home after that.
2. Making the same mistakes over again and not learning from them. (Maybe sleeping with guys too quickly and not realizing that guys will take advantage of that)
3. Frequency of sex partners and the ability to move on quickly from one sexual partner to the next within a month or two. (Sex doesn’t affect her emotionally and doesn’t value sex as something only for special people)
These are my concerns, but help me out and tell me how you could defend this girl. I know it’s the PAST, but sometime someone’s past has an effect on how you respect them and It’s been hard for me lately.
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