Why are some men so selfish in bed?

[Anonymous]

I just broke up with someone I was shortly dating, because he was extremely selfish when it comes sex. He didn't care about my pleasure, for him sex is ejaculating as soon as possible and that's it. Foreplay would last around 2 minutes and then he would put it in, fuck me for like 2 more minutes so fast as if there's no tomorrow, and then cum. And then he would either go to sleep or continue doing whatever he was doing before sex. I tried talking to him about it but he didn't want to listen or change, he claims that's how he likes it and end of story. He said that I have a problem if I can't orgasm within 5 minutes, that it's boring for him to do a longer foreplay. Said I should finish myself off with a dildo or something if it's bothering me that much. I asked him if that's how he's done it with every girl and he said yes and that none of them complained. I am simply lost for words, I feel so awful and used. How is it possible that no women complained about it? Do some men really don't care at all to please a woman? Do some men really have sex just to hit the load?

[MrOracle]

Some guys are just selfish generally, so of course they're going to be selfish in the bedroom too.

Some guys literally don't even consider whether or not what he's doing is going to do anything for her - he just kind of operates on the assumption that if it's good for him, that it ought to be good for her, and if it isn't, maybe there's something wrong with her? Yes, that's either super ignorant or super self-centered, but some guys are that way.

Some guys think that only going after their own pleasure is "manly", and that doing anything specifically for her pleasure would make them unmanly. This attitude is especially common among the lower class (people with less education and less interest in education, and more interest in their image and "respect.")

Guys with big dicks often think that a big dick should be enough to satisfy all of her needs, and that he doesn't need to make any further effort to please her, because, in his mind, the size of his dick solves all problems and automatically makes him better than other men in bed. LOTS of women have had this experience.

You did the right thing by breaking up with the guy and NOT rewarding his selfish and self-centered attitude and behavior with more sex. Too many women just accept this and suffer through it and just confirm for those guys that it's okay to do what they're doing. Women COULD virtually eliminate it by cutting off sex for guys who have no interest in pleasing them, but too many won't stand up for themselves, unfortunately.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

WFT IS THIS SHIT?
HIT HIS BALLS, WHAT A JERK.
I you're place will give him a new face whit my nails.
I do a forplay whntile the girl schream be herself "FUCK ME YOU SON OF A BITCH".
How the FUCK, sex can be boring? THAT MEEN HE IS A MORON.
Don't give to dous guy any more pussy, take the dildo and start play whit it and say how much bether it feel and do you then theyr kid pines.
I fuck in a time one of my girl for 4:30 h, she cum 2 time, her pussy whas afther dry as hell.
Next day she couldn't walk any more and she whas afraid of my horny mood because of that.

[JHwong]

Those kinds of men are not worth your time! If they are selfish in bed the they will be selfish outside the bed too. No you do not have a problem if you can not orgasm within 5 minutes because that is HIS responsibility to make sure you are enjoying the experience!

[integrale77]

Sorry you've had such bad experiences. You need to find someone like me who likes to see a woman getting pleasure.

[OneofAkind100]

Plainly weak sometimes

[0112358]

Amazing. He should go find some starfish, they can be very not that happy together.

A lot of people seem to think however they have sex is perfect and anyone who expects or wants anything different is weird and wrong.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

You was right to dump him. We're not all like that, I can assure you.

[winterfox10]

Some men do not care about pleasing the woman at all, no. Most care. Some do not.

[seriouslyIf]

That guy is awfully selfish. There are unfortunately some horrible selfish guys due to whose selfishness girls can't get good sex.

[TheFlak38]

"I feel so awful and used. " Welcome to reality. Women today are sex objects. He did nothing wrong.

[OpenNudist]

We're not selfish in that we're always making a quick Cum

[RyaanRyaanRyaan]

Because they are lack in this field.

[andy530]

Cause girls in the past have let him get away with it.

[CubaPirate]

I'm afraid its just a man thing and more common than you think

[Tonythecreator]

Nah that’s just him. He’s a selfish loser

[Anonymous]

I really don't know. I love focusing on her pleasure, lots of foreplay, listening to what she wants.

[Anonymous]

Ahh I’m sorry to hear that. Some men are just jerks and selfish when it comes to sex. A real man would care about ur pleasure over his or if he came before u did, at least take care of u afterwards.