Is a girl with a high sex drive a turn off?

When I'm single I'm not that horny, but when I'm in a relationship I like having sex like twice a day. Is this too much for most men?

For me sex is an expression for love much like kissing etc. Hence why my sex drive increases a lot when I am emotionally attatched to someone, so sex twice a day becomes the norm.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sometimes. I've had relationships where it happens twice a week and we're both totally satisfied. Others where it's happened 2 times a day. Another where I want it every day but she wants it 10 times a week, but if I go the extra couple times im just so drained I can't perform for any of them.

    I'm not generally averted to any kind of sex drive. It's a matching of sexual energy. It's kinda unique for every partner. I've had long term relationships where we never really connected in bed, and pretty short ones where we were gettin too busy to do things like talk or get to know each other.

    In general I like a higher sex drive, but the most important part is neither party pressuring each other too much for it.

    • It's not fun, or loving unless both parties want it Kind of defeats the whole emotional side of it

  • Twice a day would be too much for me, at least consistently. I'd be most comfortable having sex once every other day, but I could do sex once a day consistently, and maybe a second time on rare occasions. That would be my absolute maximum. And of course I could always give her oral if that wasn't enough for her.

    I wouldn't say it's necessarily a "turn off" purely in regards to attraction. However I would always fear, that if my partner's sex drive was higher than mine, that would make her more likely to turn to cheating if I wasn't satisfying her.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah it's a lot :(
    I mean I'm totally the same. Before I got with my boyfriend there was no mastrubation or. man seeking, but I ALWAYS want it... he's 30. He doesn't ALWAYS want it. I mean when he was 26 it was almost no problem, but even then twice was a bit much. They just don't recharge as much. Unfortunate, but true.

  • Long as you're not gonna guilt someone because they don't feel like having sex with you in that moment then no I can't imagine it's a turn off.

    Wouldn't have considered twice a day as that high though?
    I know men in their 20s who jack off five times a day like they just discovered the thing ahahaha

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  • Not a turn off for me but if it gets annoying, and I'll make sure it does, so I can spank you, you naughty girl!! ;)

  • When I was married we had sex several times every day. He seemed to like it. We were married 20 years.

  • No it's not a turn off. It is important tho some people including men have lower sex drives. I can have sex twice a day but if u do that I want morning and night sex. I rarely want to have sex twice within a hour honestly. So I think communication and honesty is important. If u really need sex twice a day u should be honest and try to get a partner that matches that

  • Yeah that's fine. Twice a day would be fine with me, just not two in a row 😂🙄

    • Yeah I'm referring to more morning and night time sex lol

    • That's acceptable lol

    • Twice in a row doesn't sound too bad either lol

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  • I like this.

  • No that’s a turn On. Twice a day is great, he should be down for that if he’s your age.

  • Message me. I would like to express some love and compassion to you! Twice a day is awesome!

  • Men wants the women to be sexy and horny.
    But only for us and just us.

  • It can be a turn-off. It really depends on some other factors.

    If it seems like literally nothing drives a woman other than sex, then yes it's a turn-off. Nymphomaniacs are generally perceived as being psychos.

    On the other hand, someone who views sex as just a counterpart to kissing or any other commonplace form of affection can be a pretty significant turn-off too.

  • Kinda a little

  • NO. It can cause issues, but there is nothing wrong with liking sex. Now if its so bad that you have to worry if you go away for a weekend she will have another guys junk in her mouth then yes it is.

  • Quite to the contrary

  • most guys would love to have sex with a girl they like / love twice a day.

    so I say turn on for sure.

  • God no.
    If I was quarantined with the guy I'm talking to right now, I'd probably be preggo

  • oh ya I get like that too, regularly my sex drive is pretty low but when I get attached/relationship emotionally I could bang like 10 times a day

  • I'm in the same situation as you.
    I don't think 2 time in a day in to much sex for a guy and for shure is not a turn off.
    For me sex is an expression for love much like kissing etc. (SAME 100% FOR ME)

  • I'm the same but my bfs sex drives isn't that high, we have sex once out of 4 days we spend together, kinda sucks but what can I say? "Babe were having sex 4 times a day from now on" lol I really hate initiating

    • I bet he’ll like that

    • @goblueCFB1996 maybe but his sex drives is kinda low

    • Sorry to hear that

  • well I don't know about other men but i get horny at night and in the morning so a girl liks you would be a perfect balance to my sex life so if other men have the same ways as me then im sure they wouldn't hate it

  • Only twice a day? Seems low to me. Them again, I have a high testosterone level versus most men with bellow normal levels.

    • Below*. Oh my, so much test boosters you can’t properly spell. Your sentence structure suffers as well. You compare guys with test levels below normal to yourself. Even a guy with test levels at normal are higher than guys with test levels below normal. You’re old, so I would’ve normally doubted your claim. However seeing how moronically you put together a simple statement, I believe you.

    • You certainly placed plenty of effort into your reply. As for my syntax, it certainly stands in stark contrast to your verbose attempt at superiority.

    • Clearly you forgot to take your test pills this morning boomer.

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  • Yeah I’ve dated women like you before. I will take a girl like vs a girl with no sex drive. But here are my concerns:

    1. Do expect guys to perform like gold medalists everytime? In general (like everything) sex takes more effort for us. More work to make you cum.

    2. Are you going to get upset if we turn you down? We are not always in the mood.

    3. If we aren’t meeting your needs will you cheat?

    • Funny how men and women differ on this. For guys it’s a thrill and very exciting to bang an attractive woman who we just met. Women on the other hand are usually more nervous. However when they feel more comfortable around the guy they often want more and more.

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