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Ladies, does anal distroy anus sphincter?

My girlfriend don't like anal , she always avoid it.
But now she make a new strange excuse for refuse it. she told me anal sex can distroy her anus sphincter and she will be hurt in pooping always. is it true , can it be possible?
Or she is just making an excuse for avoid anal?
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She told me a case of her friend (female) that she was in anal her sphincter distroyed and she couldn't hold her shit and fart pressure now, it's very difficult for her to hold pressure for her due to loose anus sphincter and all the time her anus leakage and stinks horrible all the time (shitty smell) and her underwear wet and dirty Everytime from the place of anus. .
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And I am sure she is telling lies, because her friend whom about she is talking , she have hemorrhoids (piles ) disease.. and it's a common disease we know , and it's not becomes due to anal sex.. Right?
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  • You can definitely damage your anus with incautious anal sex. It's important to take it slow at first, use a lot of lube, etc., for this reason. It can tear & bleed, and even prolapse. People with hemerrhoids are more likely to have issues with this. The damage is not likely to be permanent but it is unpleasant.

    Anyway, you should probably stop pushing her to do anal sex if she doesn't want to do it. If its gotten to the point where she is making up stories about it to find excuses you should probably reflect on how pushy you're being, not try to find evidence that disproves it. Can't you respect her boundaries on this one? You can do a lot with a body that isn't anal!

    • Okay , I will try to avoid anal , I don't want to hurt her. you all are right 👍. I will keep control myself

    • hell yeah dude I'll drink to that ^^

    • What you drink? 🤔

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  • Anal isn't really healthy

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What Girls Said

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  • i think i've read that it's not really proven or refuted yet. but if she doesn't want to repect her decision. why does she have to make an excuse to begin with a simple no should be enough.

  • Hm, might be an excuse but honestly it shouldn’t matter if it is or not. If she doesn’t want to do it, for whatever reason, that’s her call.

  • No it's a myth. She probably poops bigger turds than most dicks. Anal can leave you temporarily loose but it only lasts about 20 mins

  • Stop forcing your girlfriend to do anal, how hard is it to understand a no.
    You can do research to see what side effects it can give

    • Okay I'll try to avoid it, you all are right 👍

  • To realistically solve this, let her start to dildo your ass, then you can check.

    • Nasty, eww anyway your girlfriend doesn't want anal sex sooo understand it...

    • Eww , nasty about what dear?

  • Your girlfriend doesn't like anal. Do you really think that if you disprove her excuse that she'll be excited to do anal? Take the no and move on. If you can't accept the no; then maybe your not with the right person for you.

    • I think you are right, she is not for me in this way ,, I should leave anal interest if I want to live with her.

  • i say this from troo opinion of female, anus is BAD, BAD, BAD for sex activity. It so not good. My last friendboy put it in and It made it break and I no poop for many weeks. I had all the poop build up in my tummy and almost died. Nurse told me no anus sex activity and to spread the word

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