Is it wrong if I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend because he's fat?

[hellionthesagereborn]

Do you think its wrong for him not to want to have sex with you because you have braces? Or your tits are not big enough? I mean technically its not wrong but why did you start dating him if that was an issue? Also don't complain when a guy throws you under the bus in the same manner you are doing to him (again, not saying you can't nor am I saying I disagree, only that you have to accept fair play, I despise hypocrisy).

[Futureboy]

Yes because I consider him just your friend. If you don't love him on the outside then he can't be your boyfriend. I know sex isn't everything in a relationship but isn't the point to at least be somewhat attract physically to the person your with. It's a bit of a kick in the teeth for him. Your basically saying your alright as a person but I wouldn't dream of sleeping with you.

[Flower7]

It's wrong if he was fat since before you started dating. It's NOT wrong if he became fat after you started dating. People should make an effort to remain at the level of attractiveness they were at the beginning of a relationship. So if you got together with him, and then he began piling on pounds, it's completely understandable that you lost attraction to him.

[yolo18]

It sounds like you are not attracted by him AT ALL. Girl, chemistry is the second most important thing in a relationship so I think he should try to lose weight and you should try to be more openminded and love him for him without considering too much his weight, good luck!

[Mantinziza]

don't date someone you're not attracted to too, being nice is not being right... follow your instincts there there for a reason, you can still be nice and freindly and not sleep with him... to his prerogative that is, and dont let him fuk u over either

[AndyOh]

Why are you with him?
If he is fat and you don't want to have sex with him... are you expecting him to lose weight and keep it off? Good luck with that.
If you are trim and slim and want a guy like that... time to make some decisions and move on.
Good Luck

[Bananaman177]

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[SeryCoola]

No, it's not wrong, but at the same time, he's your boyfriend, which means you should love him a lot. So it's a bit weird to not want to get intimate with him (unless this is actually a normal thing for you and you don't want to have sex in general). But again, not wrong, just not the right reason to pass

[Mikeilito]

I wouldn’t have sex with a fat woman I did one never again shit was growing down there scare the fuck outta you! Dont even have fat it says a lot ther are fat like lazy

[katiesmuff]

Well if you are not into him why is he your boyfriend?

[skittles2017]

Make a plan to have sex with him somehow.
The more weigh he losses the more sex you'll have with him.

[Tamera952]

No. But maybe he shouldn’t be your boyfriend.
When I see fat people in porn (amateur porn that is) it always grossed me out and turns me off... can’t help it.

[David92506]

I understand what you are saying. When I was in college I befriended several obese women who then pressured me for sex. I just didn't want to do it. I felt conflicted inside and shallow.

[AaronKrieger]

I'm going to guess you've been dating for a while and he put on weight. Really just try it out and if you can't enjoy it, then I'd end it. If you both have a kid or are married, then bring it up and try it work it out.

[Guardian45]

No. It's just how you feel, but you should talk to him about it. It sounds like it is a relationship killer!

[Anonymous]

If you fear for his wait and have feelings for him...
Do little study and have sex with him some positions best to have with heavier men and have fun...

But if you don't find him Attractive, you two should talk and get a leave from relationship...
If you two married it's different story

[LeeannaDD]

If that’s an issue you shouldn’t be dating him in the first place because your clearly not attracted to him...

[Isten]

It's not wrong, but unless he wants to change and works towards it, you should end the relationship. Long term it will make you both unhappy.

[OpenNudist]

You Individually could help him, Why don't you Individually want too

[devil_8888]

It’s your preference. But have you ever told this to him?

[BeMuse]

Yep, it’s wrong that you’re using some guy that you aren’t attracted to.

[pajamasam]

Why is he your boyfriend then? Why date someone you have 0 sexual attraction to.

[musicbrain5]

Why are you even with him then? You’re not even attracted to him so break up.

[0112358]

I don’t think it’s right or wrong. It’s not sustainable though.