Guys, Does it sound like I dont give him very good orgasms?

Question

My boyfriend and I have a very active sex life, but I've noticed something. When we have sex and he finishes inside my pussy, we always cuddle but he doesn't fall asleep sometimes. Sometimes he does, but not often. He lays with me for a little while and then gets up to do something else, even though it's late at night. But when we have anal sex and he cums inside my ass, he falls asleep and sleeps heavily. Does it sound like I dont give him very good orgasms when he's in my pussy? I just thought that guys slept after a really good orgasm.

pajamasam · Accepted Answer

Guys usually pass out after an orgasm because we just had a big work out and now that sex is done our heart rate is dropping back down and we are warm and cozy and wham, sleep.

The sleep isn't necessarily a sign of a better orgasm. A good sign of a better orgasm is when his legs are shaking, or he's weak in the knees afterward, or he grunts like an angry grizzly bear afterward.

Dargil · Accepted Answer

There is probably nothing wrong here. It's just real life.

kindheartsydney · Answer

Not all guys sleep after they cum. If your boyfriend doesn't go to sleep after he cums, it doesn't necessarily mean he didn't have good sex. I suggest you talk to him openly and ask him what he likes and doesn't like in bed.