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Sexual Health Me and my boyfriend dated for a year and argued a lots. We are in long distance relationship. i feel insecure and tired half of the time dating him.
I complained about the problems But most of time he leaved the problem behind til it got worse.
The thing started when I found out he still have tinder after we confirmed the relationship. (Now deleted)
He is also not willing to spend money on me. At first I think it s just a little weird didn’t care too much but over a year he only sent me some perfumed oil that I guess it’s free sample he got from his company , and a bag of chocolates. ( At the beginning he was even being mean to me over money )
last time, i suggested to share a music account but he only worried that I will take advantage of him by asking him to pay the fee.. it ended up me paying it.
He didn’t buy me any gifts for birthday either.
He is a horny person too. followed a lot of sexy half naked women on ig and have some weird comments on his posts...
we are not able to hang out or take pictures together since we are apart..
the only thing I saw was his ex ‘s pics.. (he dated the woman for 5years , ended up cheating on her and she cheated back)
There’ s a pic made me feel really bad.. not about the pic itself it was because of what she wrote. She learnt a bit Japanese and I can understand kanji.. it said “he is my future husband sths like that” I felt like cursed 🙂 ( just want to share that on forum, that can make me relieved a bit; she s married now)
Apart from those pics, he only posted once or twice of my things (it was the package and letters I sent to him, then nothing..)
He claimed he told all his friends and family members about me and showed them my pictures, not hiding , didn’t cheat, he blocked his ex , even deleted his Facebook account so the old comments are no longer there) Promised to fly back to see me..
A week before , we argued again and I didn’t reply his last message. He just never send a new message to me.
What should I do? :(
Should I end the relationship?
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Sorry some errors here. Got my question on wrong topic
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Plus he s still using the wallet that his ex gave him. He knew that I started getting sensitive about it but still bring up the past. Last time I talked about what I found on google searching his name he just brought up the past and said he and his ex did that too. I mean wtf. (He cheated on his 5years ex and the woman cheated back Then he just dumped her saying because she wasn’t honest to him didn’t reveal til he found out. After 1year or more the ex wanted to get back together , he rejected)
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