As some others have noted, submissive doesn't mean lay there like a dead body, and it's possible to be both dominant in 'feel' and the more physically passive partner.
Someone I used to know here used to like it when her partner insisted she ride him, and when he got close he'd spank her till she made him cum. She really enjoyed that - so it's an example of where the 'dynamic' is she's sub but she's 'doing most of the work'.
When girls say things like 'i'm too submissive' it's not that they don't understand why a guy would enjoy being submissive, it's that they find it a huge a turn off. They probably see submission as feminine and dominance as masculine. They might be okay with vanilla sex, but sex where the guy is submissive turns them off. If the guy is truly sub, it's just not going to work together.
As for a guy who wants anal stimulation but isn't actually submissive, he might be able to work it in but it's challenging, but he'd need to establish a very dynamic environment where her stimulating him anally still feels like 'he's in control and using her'
I can't stand women like that. It sucks for sub guys cause it seems like no woman ever wants to take control. They always want to be on the bottom and follow someone else's lead. So that means a lot of sub guys may be forced to act dominant if they want a chance of having a girlfriend.
Guys do hate that. Some require it due to their own defects, ... but yea guys too would like to be submissive
Soo many sub guys out there and not enough dom girls for them. It's really a sad thing😥
I agree
Yeah it really sucks
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If you think being sub is laying there like a dead body then you really know nothing about domination & submission
Submissive women don't just lay there like a dead body. They really, really get off on the power exchange and giving up control and responsibility.
most of the people seem to use the word submissive to freely... submissiv are submissiv to the dominant counterpart and not just lazy fuckers. I am submissive and work my ass off during sex so I don't know what your problem is...
If he enjoys it, he should find a woman who would enjoy it too.
Most people are one way or another, not switches, you can't really expect them to be into everything, and you shouldn't really expect someone to do something just because you are into it.
I am a guy, and I'd hate a dominant woman, so a dominant woman would have to find someone else.
Incompatibilities.
I dated a gal who did that... just laid there. I could do what I wanted, but absolutely no input or help or movement, etc. So I broke up with her.
And yes, add in a butt plug for fun and that extra sensation, and wow! Does not mean I am submissive; it does mean that I have experienced some new ways of thinking.
That's the dumbest reason to break up. But you do you dude
Not if the sex is all one sided. Absolutely no fun in bed. There were some other reason, but the sex was the one thing that really made the whole relationship not worth it.
Bruh 😂
Most guys would prefer a woman who is generally submissive and has a slight dominant side in the bedroom, but butt plugs aren't commonly desired by us. That's just weird. If he enjoys it then by all means do it. Just don't pretend to be surprised that it's not so common or liked.
Nobody wants their partner to lay there like a dead corpse.
Submissive women are the best women. Just imagining her under me, breathing hard, her chest going up and down harshly, mouth open moaning, letting me take control of her makes me mmmmmmmmmmm :) No problem with her dominant side of riding me too :D but don't stick something up my butt. That's not a guy being submissive. That's just awkward.
True
while it's often good for the woman to be the submissive one during sex. sometimes it is a nice chance of pace for her to be the domination one now and then.
or maybe still be a sub but be the one that initiates the encounter once in a while.
Not sure that is true. More likely served sexually like a Geisha would.
Submissive girls i breakup with after a while because the sex gets boring and the are lazy. The just lay there and make men do all the work.
Oh yes I can enjoy very much being submissive. I'm also actually more a switch so I do understand both sides hahaha
It's not that they don't understand it's just that they don't like it. They don't want their man to be submissive (even if he enjoy it, they would find it to be a turn off).
Funny, I just commented about this exact topic in another post. It does seem that sexually dominant or 'switch' women are hard to find, and a guy will likely have to wade through a lot of social judgements from girls along the way to finding that 1 girl out of 50 that actually likes to switch the roles up.
That said, I enjoy sexually submissive women too. I'm pretty flexible on power exchanging in bedroom
I olso hate girl whi lie themself to say i'm submisive and when i put a little presure on her dominant side she become a big slut.
What does the butt plug have to do with it?
And yes, 'starfish sex' is a bore. Your enthusiasm plays a big part of the success of the encounter.
It was just an example
Tell us why you prefer weak-suck guys instead of real men. Are are you still dealing with BOYZ?
I don't prefer weak-suck guys at all
Wonders of feminine sexuality will always perplex. I'm glad to know that a woman finds it confusing too
I think they understand it fairly well. They just don't find it attractive
They don't care, generally speaking.
Just like we don't care that some girls prefer to be dominant, generally speaking.
Dead body girls and girls that say ouch every time you touch them deffinatley take the life/fun out of any coupling times.
dilaria :)
Hmm It should be dilara
oh I spelled your name wrong, its really been a long time I guess.
How could you remember such a hard name?
I don't agree that being submissive means you're dead in bed ! None of my submissive partners ever were !! :)
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