Would you be okay with a partner who didn't like sex?

Question

Someone who is ace or asexual, who doesn't enjoy or want to engage sexual activities even with a serious partner that they love.

justsimpleguy · Accepted Answer

Even though sex is pleasurable and enjoyable there are other things a couple can do that are not sexual and still remain close so for me this won't be a problem. The persons personality is more important to me. You can have the best sex and still be unhappy. 🙂

Smirnoff23 · Accepted Answer

There are people like this and it is their choice not everyone has a high sex drive some just like company or a cuddle

PrudentGuy · Answer

Definitely no, because the primary reason I enter a romantic relationship is to have sex. And since good sex needs efforts from both, my partner must minimally like to have a sex-filled lifestyle.

Otherwise I would rather we be "just friends", platonic or strictly in association for business purpose.

I think defining relationships in these ways make it easier for us to follow through, with lesser hurt. It's like "ok since you don't want sex, we just meet for such and such reasons, and I'll look for another romantic partner".

I know I sounded totally unromantic. 😄 But I think it hurts the least since we know what we want from and can give to each other.

Dargil · Answer

No.. There would be more wrong with her than that.

chriscdi · Answer

I don't know about that, but id give her a chance for a bit but im sure at some point ima want some puh ill convince her to try it once and maybe i can change her perspective on sex 🤷🏽‍♂️