So Im going to University of Kentucky in the fall. I signed up for a roommate finder and have had tons of girls message me to be a roomate. I want to have sex when I leave for college because I am very open in my sexuality. SO how do I pick a roommate that would be okay with this, or do I just pick someone fun that I enjoy, and sneak people into my bedroom? Not sure what to do, help me out. Also this is the layout of the dorm
Just say “Hey I’m interested in you as a prospect for being roommates, I just had a few follow up questions: 1) are you comfortable with my having guests? 2) are you planning on having guests? 3) are you comfortable with me having overnight guests, and would you like to do the same (totally fine if you do)? 4) are there any nights that you might want to block out where no company is allowed (holidays, midterms, etc?) Thanks!”
Be straight up with a prospective roommate. Just ask her if she has a problem if you have guys stay over occasionally. Figure it out now so it's not a problem later.
cntrytbm | 124 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Just make sure the headboard isn't banging against the wall and communicate about having guests over. I'm not a great resource on this because I don't care if my roommates are having sex. Even when staying in a hotel with another couple, I wouldn't care if they left the light on and went at it. Who am I kidding... I'd enjoy that! Lol
Usually you just talk to the person about how the room is going to work. You can just say something like "don't come in to the room when there's a sign or a sock on it", that sort of thing.. And you can always just figure out their schedule, so you can base it on yours and there's, that way they won't be in there
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integrale77 | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Seems the layout gives you enough privacy to have someone over without them being put out jus remember to hand a sock on the door knob when your getting busy!
You need to make sure she knows you're going go bring a guy around (don't make it sound like you'll bring different guys) and is OK with that because you don't want conflict over that. I've been the guy in some of these situations.
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