My boyfriend gets boners and doesn't want to have sex?
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Soteris | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Erections happen and does not necessarily have anything with us wanting to have sex at that moment. Men are not that simple that we have a convenient indicator light for our willingness to have sex, its still a human being we are talking about. Technically speaking our erection is beyond our control, at most we can intentionally try to trigger it by thinking of something erotic or looking at something erotic but our penis can just randomly decide for no obvious reason that it wants to become erect. Even if we think of something erotic and get an erection that also does not mean we want to have sex.
Just cause his dick is hard doesn't mean he's in the mood to have sex. Morning wood for example. Let the man's dick be at peace. As long as you're still having sex at other times that's fine.
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AdithyaR | 268 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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A boner doesn't always mean he's horny. There are many times a guy has a boner as just a physical reaction but it doesn't always stem from arousal.
Well. If he'd have sex everytime he got hard. He wouldn't have time for a lot of other things
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What is wrong with that? Just because he is sexually excited; doesn't mean that he wants to have sex at that moment. Perhaps he wants to form a more serious relationship between you before having sex.
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