It's definitely not expected. And putting on an act would be a total turn off. Above all, we want genuine.
At the same time, all a guy needs are signs that she's into it. It's nice if she has words of encouragement or instruction like "Oh God!", "Don't stop!", "Yes! Just like that!", or "Fuck me!" But it's enough if she is sloppy wet, panting and possibly flushed and sweating, moaning and jacking her hips as she uses him to pleasure herself.
Then there is the orgasm. We want her to orgasm because it means that we are really doing it right. We want to take her to the peak of pleasure. It's obvious when a man climaxes, but it's not always obvious when a woman does so. Some women's bodies spasm or quiver. Most woman give some kind of vocal sign when the sensation becomes overwhelming. One extremely orgasmic girlfriend of mine would give a sharp intake of breath, sort of seize up, and quiver a bit. She would do that several times during one sex session. I never had any doubt that she was getting off.
I do have to say that it's hot when a woman is comfortable talking and saying something like, "Oh my God! Yes! Yes! I'm going to cum! I'm going to cum!" because we do want to know. We want to be there with her; to participate in her rapture.
So screaming like she's being stabbed to death is usually the fake stuff of porn, but just lying there is a drag. Give us some sort of feedback. And the same goes for guys. Most women I've talked to like it when guys give vocal signs of pleasure, either in words or groans and gasps.
I find too much moaning to be a bit of a turnoff, honestly. It's nice to have the woman communicating what feels good though. Like not having any response when you're trying to pleasure your partner is nerve wracking.
Lol i remember with my first partner he wanted me to moan and i had to fake it. Like the sex felt good but not enough to make me moan. Took a long while before he hit it right and the real moans burst out. I couldnt hold em in. But still i rather bite into his shoulder and suck on it and hymn rather than actually moan/scream. I’ll leave that for phone sex when im mental gasming or sumn
I don't make much noise at all when I am having sex. I have tried a few times but it just feels unnatural. I don't have to make noise to let him know that it feels good. Thankfully my boyfriend has never asked me to, but I wonder if he thinks it is weird that I don't.
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Well as an uneducated Anonymous TROLL I wouldn't expect you to understand it is not expected during sex!
Oh lord what is this creature!
Girls that are loud during sex are probably faking it
That expectation comes from porn, which is fake sex.
I had this question in my mind, u wanna ask the girls..
Is moaning and screaming voluntary or involuntary action
I wouldn't say it's 'expected' but personally I enjoy when my partner expresses their pleasure in some way.
On the other side of that though is probably expectations set by porn.
Because moaning during sex is common between women, not screaming though
Vocal expressions enhance the overall experience of having sex and it does boost your partner's confidence and speed and TPM! (Thrusts per minute)
Moaning sounds sexy and it actually turns me on so much Lol
Amen sister!! Lol
Women are not expected to "moan or scream" during sex. You have been watching too much porn.
Since when are girls expected to moan or scream? I never heard of such expectations.
They are not expected to actually
Maybe because during hookups women can lie still and think "I'll sue him once this is over" instead of screaming "stop, I don't want this"
Why are men expected not to?
Many women does it to please men.
Yes I am a screamer
It's not necessary. But moaning makes it more exciting and make us fuck harder... Same for the boys. Little moan makes my girlfriend more horny... She likes it. It's like blow job or eating her out... You do it because your partner likes it
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