Force fantasy? Hot or Uncomfortable?

Question

Before anyone comes at me, I know the severity of Rape, I don't wish that upon anyone or myself. BUT, lets say I asked a guy to force me into something, giving consent before hand. Like if I was leaned against the sink and he came up behind me, grabbed my hair, slapped me, etc, and fucked me... would they be scared off by that? Is it weird?

jgirl99 · Accepted Answer

No that sounds hot to me I'd love that and my boyfriend probably would be totally down for it, its pre consent, u just want him to take you roughly and by surprise, unexpectedly. Its not about being forced or raped its a rough sex fantasy. don't be shamed. Women are always targeted for expressing our sexuality. A guy shouldn't be scared off by that its perfectly normal and a pretty common type of fantasy

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You will need to discuss this with the guy first. If he is not dom, forget it. If he is ok with it, you will need to agree a safe word. You need to be able to trust the guy 100% that he will stop if you ever have to say the safe word.

My guy has carte blanche to do as he pleases. I have never had to use our safe word, although been right on the limit.

seriouslyIf · Accepted Answer

Yes, women like violent or rape type sex. In fact, the most searched porn by females is violent porn followed by rape porn. Many women have admitted having rape fantasy. Women are more likely to get orgasm from rape than regular sex and that orgasm will be very intense, in compared to orgasm from regular sex.

I'm not justifying rape, since it's a very heinous and unpardonable crime.

0112358 · Accepted Answer

Common fantasy, most don't have it but it's more common then most fantasies. done with consent and probably a safe word, hot.

purplepoppy · Answer

If it's consented to then It's not forced. You can't ask a guy to force you do something because by doing so you've already agreed. It would be better to think of it in terms of dom/sub rather than force/willing victim

MrNameless · Answer

You're talking about domination. As long as you make rules beforehand and how far you can tolerate (as well as how much the other), then it should be okay for most guys. Maybe have a safe word too just in case

TJFreshman22 · Answer

I've done exactly this with multiple past partners after receiving prior consent and discussing any intricacies ahead of time. It's crazy hot. Trust me. You're going to orgasm like crazy doing this. I would love to do that with you. The way you discuss consent/any boundaries ahead of time is exactly the way to do something like this. And then possibly a day/month/year, when he wants to completely dominate and use u he will do so on his own terms, regardless of what you say or do (have a safe word though that's always stops everything, no exceptions to this). You have no say in the matter and will cum like crazy while being roughed, tossed, forced, and fucked exactly the way he likes. It'll be a massive turn on for both of you.

cntrytbm · Answer

Definitely hot and I've done this a few times. It's always been well received

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

I’m really into that too

dmgstarfleet · Answer

No-its is actually THE most common female fantasy. Most will not admit it because its not "PC". Men should not confuse the FANTASY of play acting with desire to be ACTUALLY forced however.

Dargil · Answer

Too many moving parts for me.

MillieBrunette · Answer

Noooo I find it creepy asf

Ámayas_20 · Answer

Whatever you do with someone as long as it's consensual is fine, you'll find loads of people into this kind of thing just make sure it's with someone you can trust, you have a safeword, and you talk through your limits beforehand to make sure everything goes how you want it to go.

ColHathi · Answer

I'd say yes to both. Maybe? Kinda hard to imagine.

letssee89 · Answer

I've never done it. I can't knock it 'til I try it, right? Just be safe and enjoy yourself.

goodlongman · Answer

I would love to restain you and have my way

one1wild00 · Answer

Not something I'm into, but I understand some gals like that and some guys will go along with it.

Prime_Sol · Answer

Rape sex is the best sex.

CaseyBlack · Answer

I understand what you're talking about, and yes. I love to be forced. It's very sexy. PS you should message me ;)

Cellestial · Answer

That's really hot! However there MUST be an agreement on a sign that the girl needs to do to let the guy know he really needs to stop when something goes wrong.

OpenNudist · Answer

Let me preface this by saying I have NEVER FORCED MYSELF ON ANY GIRL. I f it was a Roleplaying scenario I might consider it feasible. I'm not a sociopath even though mutual it would be a strain on the relationship

Numbnuts89 · Answer

you don't have a "force" fantasy, you have a rough sex, fantasy, most women have it, but they confuse it with rape because rape, is often associated with "rape", unfortunately YOU WANT ROUGH SEX