When you first had sex was it satisfying or disappointing?

Just want to know if it will be satisfying or not.
Satisfying
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Extremely satisfying
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Disappointing
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Extremely disappointing
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Man I want to have sex so bad lol. But it seems like it wasn’t fun for most people. Especially women. Thank God I’m a guy I guess. Well I get to have it eventually I guess hopefully 😆
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  • it was disappointing, I was just a drunk horny kid, stupid kid... should have found someone I was emotionally bonded with instead of just some party girl slut...

    • Yeah I get yah. I tried to lose mine to an escort but there was no feelings involved at all. Didn’t feel good and I didn’t go through with it.

    • I thought about escorts bfor but yeah I cudnt do that either

  • Big disappointment a one night stand on a blind date she put the pressure on me when she came over to my house to hangout. I regretted it to this very day

    • Thank you for Most Helpful Award my friend its greatly appreciated

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  • Horrid. It was a bit over a month into dating the guy, was at a new year's party. Wasn't even legal of age for drinking, but I got tipsy - he was wasted - we were making out and it awkwardly happened. He didn't know it was my first time. Got plan B the following morning.

    • That’s too bad thanks for letting me know though. Hopefully it got better after that.

    • Yikes that sucks

  • Disappointing. Hurt like hell and didn’t enjoy it at all. Remember thinking “so this is what everyone is so hyped up about?”

    • That’s depressing lol

  • Neither, it was just kind of mediocre. We stopped after a while because we were both getting kinda bored and tired.

  • Disappointing which most should expect

    • Roflll ok thanks

    • really?

  • I honestly don’t remember? I remember it hurting because it was both of our first times and it just kind of happened and I remember being worried about his parents coming home because he was living with them at the time and they’re very strict and controlling but that’s about it.

  • it was satisfying but only in the sense that I'd established a new stage in the relationship with my high school crush

  • Disappointing

    the guy got his body close to mine and said it was my duty as his girlfriend and he’d leave me if I wouldn’t

    among other blackmailey stuff

    • Oopf

    • I hate y’all so much

    • Huh? Why us? Would it help if I made you mho?

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  • We were both newlywed virgins. It was very satisfying. Of course, we've perfected a few things in the past 20+ years. (ha ha) But it was memorable.

  • Sadly I was raped at age 16 when my virginity was taken.. but I'm not really sad about it anymore, I take it more as a life lesson

    • Oh wow 😳 I’m sorry... impressed by your strength

    • It's all good! 😊 I know now what is right and wrong in regards to how men treat me so I'm kind of glad I went through it to learn what do to in the long-run and to help other women going through the same thing

    • if any girls wanna rape me go ahead, i won't be sad at all :)

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  • Very satisfying. Much better than masturbation.

  • Massive Fail!!

    • Didn't even make it in, then.. pfffffff.

  • Sex as in penetration or does oral count?

    • I count oral...

    • Satisfying 💁🏿‍♀️

    • That sounds lovely.

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  • Never had such a painfull horrible and awkward experience in my life. I cried during the whole thing

    • Thanks for your honest answer 🙏

  • My first was horrible. I think her name was Stephanie, but i just remember her in my head as "smelly vagina"... which i could still smell on myself for two weeks after.

    She just lied there like a corpse, and when i took a break because i got a bit tired engaging in said cardio for the first time, she took that as a sign we were done. When i said i handed cum yet, she just replied "well neither did i", and i had to finish myself off. Wasn't long i broke up with her after that.

    • I tried to have sex with an escort but all I could remember what that awful smell. I couldn’t go through with it.

    • yeah, even without smells and stuff; until you've had good sex a few times, it's never a wise idea to go to a prostitute, because until you have then you'll hardly have the self-esteem to even enjoy it. After smelling vagina i did actually try them a couple times, and they were all crap too. The 3nd a last time i just remember laying the afterwards with this polish woman in my arm, feeling like the lonest person in the world. Honestly, it's possible it doesn't apply to everyone, but in my experience when it comes to learning to enjoy sex, you first need to do it with someone you mutually genuinely enjoy being with. Went to a massage parlour with happy ending for my birthday last year, and that time i actually did enjoy it. Not as much as if i had sex, or with someone i actually cared about, but still enjoyed it. To me that's the difference in whether or not your first time is satisfying or not, in whether or not you feel safe to release that side of yourself for the first time.

    • I could have worded that differently; my first good time was years ago with my first real girlfriend, not said masseur last year. Just making the point after you have enjoyed it, it becomes easier too even with someone you don't care about.

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  • extremely disappointing. it was uncomfortable and he finished super fast.

    • Ok thanks

  • It was okay. I didn't orgasm but he did.

    • Thanks for sharing I hope it got better.

  • Oh it's nice seeing your face

    • Yo damn so true.

  • I've never had sex.

    • Yay me too high five 🙌 😂

  • Now I realize it was pretty bad, but my girlfriend and I didn't know at the time. We had both watched porn, but never had sex. Now we're far better.

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