Is it wrong to charge girls for male dominant sessions?

cast277 Xper 3

I'm pretty well dominant in the bedroom. I have toys and a special room for our play. I've had several girls come and play. Some gave me money anyway but I feel dirty. I love doing it I dont do it for money, it's just who i am.
What do y'all think?

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SueShe Master
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Well, there is a name for a person that gets financial income for sex services. That would be a sex worker or in more pejorative term, a male prostitute.

Everyone does what he does best. For you it is to collect money for sex and for others, it is to be essential workers to save lives & feed the population or taking care of the needy.

Everybody does what he/she can withing his/her own capabilities and education.
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- cast277
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  Lol I can thermite weld too. ^_^. But yea I get where you are coming from. I just never thought of it becoming something like that.
- cast277
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  Who gave this a dislike? Lol

Most Helpful Guys

Iron_Man Master
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You never charge girls for sex that makes you a prostitute
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- cast277
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  It's not just sex.
- cast277
  +1 y
  Far from it. Girls who are subs crave the dominance a good dom is hard to find especially one who isn't paired up with a sub.
- Iron_Man
  +1 y
  Yes it is dont try and slip out the back door. Its all sexual related and you should be very ashamed of yourself. Is that all you have to bring to this world is being a sexual charging prostitute? That's a professional scum bag life. Hopfully your just trolling
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- cast277
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  I'm gonna assume you're the one trolling.
- cast277
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  If not please stop sharing your opinion.
- Iron_Man
  +1 y
  You got to be kidding me you are a troll and everyone knows it a level 1 troll
- cast277
  +1 y
  Blessed are the ignorant for they know not the depths of their stupidity.
- Iron_Man
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  Lol troll at work big time. Get a life man you have been busted
- cast277
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  I shall allow you Waller In Your own nonsense until you go away.
- Iron_Man
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  ManUp and do the right things in life
- cast277
  +1 y
  Lmao you sad boi
- Iron_Man
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  You won't get my goat any real men won't converse with you saying its cool.
- cast277
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  Wasmt really looking for men's answers but ok.
AustinMan Influencer
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Are you disciplining them? Is sex involved?
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- cast277
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  Discipline some sex is given As a reward but mostly teasing and sensory play before toy and restriction play. But really it's what ever the girl wants. Most of the girls work in stressful jobs. I give a release.
- AustinMan
  +1 y
  Don't ever, ever mention money. If they want to compensate you, take only cash and don't deposit it in any bank account. Keep the first few thousand as a war chest in case you get busted. Would also be a good idea to consult with a criminal defense attorney for ways to stay out of trouble.
- cast277
  +1 y
  Lmao yea not doing that. I'm thinking film it and post it. Then do patreon or something.
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- AustinMan
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  It's your life to ruin. You open yourself up to some major legal liability doing this unless you get a signature on a release first.
- cast277
  +1 y
  Well yea it would be a release form.
- cast277
  +1 y
  And would probably equal me paying them to be in the videos.

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ecfresh Master
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I think you read 50 shades of grey or watched the movie
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- cast277
  +1 y
  No that movie is trash.
- cast277
  +1 y
  Brought about the wave of fake doms and daddies and fair weather subs. Fetish life isn't a fad.
- ecfresh
  +1 y
  How do you know it’s trash if you never saw it. Sure you could rely on reviews but without seeing it yourself it’s hard to judge.
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- cast277
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  I saw it. Everyone did.
- cast277
  +1 y
  But was dominant before that.
- ecfresh
  +1 y
  Oh. You answered ‘no’ so wanted to keep you accountable
- cast277
  +1 y
  No as in no my dominance didn't start because I watched a Hollywood crap fest.
- ecfresh
  +1 y
  Right, I didn’t think it did. You asked what we thought. I read your question and it reminded me of that movie. So because that’s what I thought, that’s my answer
- cast277
  +1 y
  Gotcha lol sorry when people relate the real thing to that movie I get heated cause there are so many pretenders giving us bad names. But yea I dint think I could operate like mr gray does. I could do a release form and put stuff on fetlife and make money that way maybe even pay the girls for their "acting" of I did a for fangs only.
- ecfresh
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  Ha ha no worries man. Being a dom but not as serious as you I understand it’s really about wanting to bring pleasure to the sub. I agree the movie is fiction but you can’t deny the response it evoked in women. Seemed to combine their sub desires with the fairy tail aspect of movies. Something appealing when they fantasize about a millionaire who will take control and let them relax. Actually had a boss once show my coworkers a 50 shades style document he made his girlfriend sign. It was obvious he was playing a prank on us but he had gone through the efforts of having his lawyer buddy draw it up to make it look legit :) Honestly I’m happy to hear you are proud of who you are and willing to defend your decisions. In no way to do see you as a predator as I assume any women is free to go when she says so: you don’t want victims.
- cast277
  +1 y
  Yea but that chick wasn't a sub at all
- cast277
  +1 y
  Oh yes safe words amd emergency releases.
- cast277
  +1 y
  Takes a long time to tie paracord in a way that she can't move but pulls the sting in her hand and the whole thing falls off
- ecfresh
  +1 y
  I agree. Thus it plays to their fantasy because it mixes that Cinderella story with their fantasy to fix the bad boy
- cast277
  +1 y
  Yeah. The one thing that really burns me about the whole thing is the wave of guys using the name dominant to get attention when they are barely better then betas
- cast277
  +1 y
  I'm ok with how the girls reacted. They realized they want something. But the guys trying to manifest themselves as this thing they have never been. Now that's not to say no one can become a dom. But if you dont have your own style your just a actor.
- ecfresh
  +1 y
  Eh let that roll off your shoulder. Women are very perceptive and can small fakeness a mile away. In fact the more times they run into a fake dom the more they crave and hold on to a real one. So from that perspective just be you because the fake guys are making you seem rare and special
Twalli Master
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If they want to lay you for it then bv that is fine. Especially since you aren't doing it for money.
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- cast277
  +1 y
  Well that's how it is now. A couple have suggested I do like a go find me or somthing, Or a patreon type deal. I don't know the legality of doing bdsm as a career but I know if I film it we become "actors".
- Twalli
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  Only if other people see it.
- cast277
  +1 y
  Lol.
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- cast277
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  Well it would go on fetlife or something.
Anonymous
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You are getting paid to Fuck. Shit if I could get paid for fucking I would quit my job.
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- cast277
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  No I have been given money but I dont like to take it from them. Granted it takes a whole day or night. But it's something I'd happily do for free. And it's not sex