Do you believe casual sex is wrong?

[Anonymous]

Do you believe casual sex friends with benefits etc open relationships are wrong?

Updates:

[chrissykerdock]

it's between 2 adults it's fine... I have a guy who comes over for blowjobs which I kind of like... I don't have coitus sex with him and he's happy with the arrangement... I kind of like getting on my knees for a man and dressing sexy for him... I think it's better it's the same man I give blowjobs to most nights and he also promised me he wouldn't see anyone else long as I give him head... which is nice especially now... plus he's fun to be with... he's only 5 3 i'm 5 10 interesting but I like him just the same and always enjoy spending some time on my knees for him... the fact he likes to cum in my mouth makes it fun and sexy.

[Yads_Is_Back]

Yes, and as someone else said, it's meant to be between lovers - people who sincerely love each other, which doesn't take away that positions and experimenting and fantasies can all be fun, true, but with that one person you love deeply. Doing it as a hobby with just anybody is basically being a whore - for either gender.

[I-am-a-nobody]

I'm a Christian, but I'll even set the Christian reasons aside... for a while...

Yes, it's wrong.
When you have sex, you form a bond whether you want to or not. There's about a zillion posts here a week saying, "Help I'm starting to have feelings with my friends with benefits..."
Sex is more powerful than people think... it's pretty much the ultimate intimate experience. After having one casual sex relationship after another, people get a little hard-hearted almost. I've seen it again and again.

[Dargil]

One guy's opinion.
One night stands? Wrong.
Booty Call? Wrong.
Meaningless, emotionless casual sex? Wrong.
Authentic friends with benefits? They are friends; they are often exclusive and there will be a level of fondness. Religious morality aside, Not Wrong.

[AustinMan]

No, I don't.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say it's necessarily "wrong" in a moral sense. However, I personally find the idea... unsavory, and I don't find it to be advisable. Wise people wouldn't engage in it. The most "wrong" thing about it is when people engage in casual sex while they're young, and then settle down when they grow old with someone who was sexually unsuccessful in their youth, who doesn't have any other options--as it's unfair to the latter. It would be preferable if people who choose the path of casual sex commit to it for their entire lives, so people who never engaged in casual sex can settle down with people who made the same decision. They shouldn't be able to eat their cake and have it too.

[notaguycalledchris]

Not in theory, but in practice there's always some dishonesty and/or self deceit. Someone always wants more, or secretly wishes it would evolve into something else. Best avoided for these reasons, unless you're confident you ain't gonna catch feelings. But even then..

[MyraAmmar]

Yes, Cox that’s why the world has forgotten how to love, you can’t feel that 80s kinda love now, when you can easily get into bed with anybody. There used to be so many good things Inna relationship, friends with benefits screwed ‘em all 😑

[MountAverage]

No, why would I think it's wrong for consenting grown ups to enjoy their sexuality together? That makes no sense.

[CreativeMumble]

As long as all parties are adults, consensual, and enjoy themselves without doing illegal stuff, then good for them.

[AzureGirl]

Not as long as both parties involved are okay with them and are on the same page with what they want.

[NorthwestRider]

None of my freaking business what other people do in their sex lives

[SarahsSummer]

It's wrong for me. As long as others are consenting adults and practicing safe sex, they are not my concern.

[DaMack999]

Yes I do. Marriage should be our target not merely enjoyment of lust is useless.

[najekim]

Nope. Just human nature if you're mature enough to handle it properly.

[elizamichale1]

No not at all
Sex and relationships must be kept n dealt separately

[Anonymous]

Any actual sex between two people outside of marriage is wrong in the eyes of God.
He has reasons for all His laws.

[Anonymous]

Not at all. As long as everyone is happy with the arrangement, then go ahead. It doesn’t affect me in any way.

[Anonymous]

Its gross and i would never date a female who has done it.

[Asses]

Yes, bad for waist once on a week or month or a year for safety. They can't do anyway, girls hate to have sex with them with amateurs or experts, they hate it.

[Anonymous]

Casual sex is nothing but what it is.
Whether it's good or wrong isn't part of it. It's just one's interpretation/point of view based on experience, education and peers pressure mostly.

[Gwenhwyfar]

No, but not for me anymore

[EmotionalOne]

No as long as the understanding is to be just that

[ask4any]

No. It's the best sex going!!