Do you believe casual sex is wrong?

Do you believe casual sex friends with benefits etc open relationships are wrong?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • it's between 2 adults it's fine... I have a guy who comes over for blowjobs which I kind of like... I don't have coitus sex with him and he's happy with the arrangement... I kind of like getting on my knees for a man and dressing sexy for him... I think it's better it's the same man I give blowjobs to most nights and he also promised me he wouldn't see anyone else long as I give him head... which is nice especially now... plus he's fun to be with... he's only 5 3 i'm 5 10 interesting but I like him just the same and always enjoy spending some time on my knees for him... the fact he likes to cum in my mouth makes it fun and sexy.

  • Yes, and as someone else said, it's meant to be between lovers - people who sincerely love each other, which doesn't take away that positions and experimenting and fantasies can all be fun, true, but with that one person you love deeply. Doing it as a hobby with just anybody is basically being a whore - for either gender.

    • Yes it’s kind of pathetic is seeking sex is your hobby

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm a Christian, but I'll even set the Christian reasons aside... for a while...

    Yes, it's wrong.
    When you have sex, you form a bond whether you want to or not. There's about a zillion posts here a week saying, "Help I'm starting to have feelings with my friends with benefits..."
    Sex is more powerful than people think... it's pretty much the ultimate intimate experience. After having one casual sex relationship after another, people get a little hard-hearted almost. I've seen it again and again.

    • So it should be in your opinion kept within a committed relationship?

    • @ajc997 Well, marriage which is the only totally committed relationship. How many "committed relationships" end in less than a couple years? After a while it gets easier and easier to just switch partners.

    • So no sex before marriage?

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  • One guy's opinion.
    One night stands? Wrong.
    Booty Call? Wrong.
    Meaningless, emotionless casual sex? Wrong.
    Authentic friends with benefits? They are friends; they are often exclusive and there will be a level of fondness. Religious morality aside, Not Wrong.

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  • No, I don't.

  • As long as all parties are adults, consensual, and enjoy themselves without doing illegal stuff, then good for them.

  • No it's brilliant

    • Long term is the way for me

  • Not as long as both parties involved are okay with them and are on the same page with what they want.

  • It's wrong for me. As long as others are consenting adults and practicing safe sex, they are not my concern.

  • Nah, it's just fun, no harm done.

  • Nope. Do as you like.

  • No, but not for me anymore

  • No not at all
    Sex and relationships must be kept n dealt separately

    • Why can’t they be intertwined? That’s how it was for much of our history

    • Because then we start fighting about it whereas sex is just a pleasurable thing n it shouldn't matter who we are doing it with while keep our relations separate so their will no grudges or griviences

    • Wait so you don’t believe in sex even within a monogamous relationship?

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  • None of my freaking business what other people do in their sex lives

  • Not really

    • Do you still remember your one experience being dominated fondly? Hooking up can be a way to experiment with stuff like that.

  • Yes, Cox that’s why the world has forgotten how to love, you can’t feel that 80s kinda love now, when you can easily get into bed with anybody. There used to be so many good things Inna relationship, friends with benefits screwed ‘em all 😑

  • No, why would I think it's wrong for consenting grown ups to enjoy their sexuality together? That makes no sense.

  • Not in theory, but in practice there's always some dishonesty and/or self deceit. Someone always wants more, or secretly wishes it would evolve into something else. Best avoided for these reasons, unless you're confident you ain't gonna catch feelings. But even then..

  • I don't condemn their choices. I won't do it.

  • No. It's the best sex going!!

  • Yeah

  • No as long as the understanding is to be just that

  • no, why would it be wrong?

    • Who is the lady in your profile pic

  • Nope. Just human nature if you're mature enough to handle it properly.

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