@Teyfet I think you have good intent, but is that the time? All these things, checklists, maybe? That just ruins the moment! Are you going to interrogate each other as to their past partners, if any? What about bathing habits? Then? In that moment?With all that, both have lost any interest in sex, and might settle for a superhero movie, just sitting on the couch together eating popcorn!
I left the criteria pretty open, but, if you want to have sex with a nut job whose riddled with STDs, go for it. The criteria that you listed are apparently some that you have on your list.
@Teyfet Hey, what's your problem? I was simply responding to your question, and then you go to judging, and STDs and 'nut jobs'? Are you so insecure that you can't simply handle someone disagreeing with you, and you have to post crap in return? What's the problem, dude?I wasn't attacking YOU, personally, just disagreeing with your statement! DIFFERENT THINGS!You come back with a personal assault, and judging me? WTF?
@Laura_Marx Contraceptives aren't 100% even when people remember to use them; and they don't prevent sexually transmitted disease, save for the condom. But even then people don't use condoms when they should; giving head for instance.
The risk of getting hit by a car when crossing the street at a light isn't 0%, either (as people like to say today). The CDC does not recommend abstinence!
@Laura_Marx I wouldn't take the CDC's recommendation then; because over 53% of adults in America have an STD. If that is reason enough to consider abstinence as a viable option then I don't know what is.
Most STDs are not danerous, though. Most people have oral herpes, many mild genital herpes... And they are becoming less and less communicable (so that someone with HIV who is on treatment, after a few years, will no longer transmit it). Taking sexual health seriously is important when one has sex but ordering one's life around avoiding a very low and unlikely risk of infection makes no sense. STDs are a population level problem and have population level solutions (contraception & medicine). Only you, as an individual, are authorized to evaluate the risk to yourself. And if you use protection the risk and the stakes are both very low. Advocating and encouraging abstinence because 'well, you can never be 100% sure!' decreases our ability to take sexual health seriously because it causes people to overestimate the risk they're already taking & underestimate how much of an impact safe sex has. People who are fed messages about casual sex being risky are not less likely to have casual sex, they're less likely to have safe casual sex. Please take this extremely seriously: when you say 'its still risky even if you use safe sex!' you are spreading *misinformation*, you are discouraging safe sex and increasing people's risk of infection
@Laura_Marx Firstly I didn't order her or anyone else around ; I made a simple suggestion and provided the reasoning behind that suggestion. Secondly acknowledging what the risks are is not overestimating the risks; and is far more likely to lead to safe sex practices then ignoring the risks altogether (which is what most people tend to do). Thirdly, I said that people often don't utilize protection when it is still needed (oral and anal sex have the same probability of transmitting STDs as vaginal sex). Finally what I've been encouraging is the safest form of sex, masterbation; over one of the more perilous sexual behaviors, sex with strangers. If compared to alcohol consumption, I'm advocating for the glass of wine at home approach of sexual gratification; over going to a bar, getting wasted, and driving home approach.
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i could fuck u if u want :)
Yea you might find that u are both Genghis Khans descendants
yeah, i dont understand why people regret sex either... stupid
@HandsomeJacked they wait til theyre like 30 and waste years of pleasure they could be having sex... but they wait til theyre like 60 and only have sex twice... for what?jus so they do it with someone special?stupid... fuck a special person... do it with whoever as much as u like
how often do you masturbate tho?
Couple times a week
why dont youFl _low me?
we can chat if you are okay with it