Why don’t guys ever want a threesome with another guy, but expect you to have sex with another girl during a threesome?

I hear this a lot and i want to know why. why are men’s ego so fragile, your penis doesn’t have to be the centre of the show
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  • For the exact reason two of my girlfriends (that is, my ex and my current, not poly or anything like that lol) said they would not have another girl. I did not even bring it up. My girlfriend just out of nowhere told me she wouldn't be down to it because she doesn't want to share me. I wouldn't be comfortable even sharing my girlfriend with another girl, but that's just me. Now, A threesome with strangers? I like the idea of both FFM and MMF. I bet some girls would be super turned on by two guys at the same time and that is just fine. It would turn me on too lol. But yeah, we humans like to keep everything to ourselves. That's my guess.

    Oh, and also. Some guys are very insecure and wouldn't like having sex with another guy in a threesome because "it's gay". Seriously.

  • I am of the mindset that threesomes are always inviting the possibility of friction into a relationship, however I am also inclined to say that I have to be willing to have it both ways if I am going to be in a relationship with a threesome as a potential

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  • It's not fragile ego. They would just rather have the alternative - another girl - and it's a self-centered choice.

    I've never had a threesome so this is just based on everything I've heard from other guys.

  • You obviously don't understand it, at all!!! The point of the threesome, with 2 women, IS his penis, and HIM, with two women! A big fantasy for some guys! It is ALL ABOUT THEM!!
    Not my thing, at all!

  • I had a threesome with another guy, it was fun

  • All human creatures have personal choice/fetish they want to do.

  • Very good question lol

  • Part of it is probably ego/insecurity and also I think girls are on average more turned on by the same gender than men are or at least not as turned off by it as men are.

  • I find this situation to be hilarious, double standard

    • Do you have any interest in MFM?

    • @minuteman12 I would but I won’t because I wouldn’t like FMF

    • @collegestudent96 So just to to be clear given an opportunity to have MFM, you’d turn it down?

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  • in my defense i dont like threesomes in general 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • I don't think "expect" is really the right word

  • Wrong guy I guess..

  • Because. That's why.

    "why are men’s ego (s) so fragile" They aren't.

  • MFM 3 somes are lots of fun

  • I don't care if my girlfriend has sex with another girl when we have a FFM threesome, but I don't want a MMF threesome with my girlfriend because as far as she's concerned I want my penis to be the center of the show.

  • I've dont both but the 2 guys and one girl I didn't do much but it was still fun

  • I don't want either

  • Lol you right what good for the goose is good for the gander

  • I like to join couples that is also hot, specially stick in same Hole really so hot, also when she screaming..

  • Guys are more insecure than women. The thought of having another guy there who is possibly bigger or can last longer is defeating.

  • That's bloody unfair, I've done both... so should your man or lover. Keep it equal.

  • Your pathetic shaming tactics aside...
    there is a reason this is common and it isn’t our “ego”, it’s women’s inability to separate emotion from sex.

    Women will say they can but in the majority of cases (unless she is mentally fucked up) the oxytocin released during sex will make her emotionally attached to the other male. While the men will just have the sex as sex and the only chemical release is dopamine which is the pleasure chemical.

    • Pathetic shaming? I think she is spot on. That's how most men think. It's not women's fault, women are usually more willing to FMF or MFM than men are to MFM. Men just want their cock sucked by two women but hate the idea of another man fucking the same girl as he.

    • @Bandita actually if you knew anything about human sexual response you would know that I am right. Women will almost always get emotionally invested into the other guy and will likely start fucking him behind the guys back. Men are more likely to just leave it as a fun thing between him and his girl.

    • Yeah... right.

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