Why did he stop mid sex?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing a guy for about 6 months. The sex in the beginning was incredible and often. Couldn’t keep our hands off each other. Recently though he’s seemed less interested when I send sexual texts and the last few times we had sex, he’d lose his erection and stop mid sex. One time he knocked over his phone loudly while we were in his parents basement. The other two times he said he had a headache. I feel like he’s losing interest in me or attraction to me. Last night was the first time we stayed together and he didn’t want sex at all or this morning. Everything was fine up until a month ago, what’s happened?

[Anonymous]

Maybe it’s something else changing. Everyone is feeling the stress of the lockdowns. Maybe it’s related to that. You should ask him and also let him know that you still have strong sexual urges and needs.

[lawhawk84]

Are you just doing the same thing every time? That gets boring. Change it up a bit. Try someplace new. Surprise him in new lingerie. Bring in toys.

[ecfresh]

He’s worried about getting too serious or getting you pregnant.

[Iron_Man]

Look what I said

[ecfresh]

We both believe the guy is worried, yes.

[Iron_Man]

You didn't read what I said

[ecfresh]

Oh I read it, just know that we disagree on sex before marriage. This has already been discussed ad

[ecfresh]

nauseam

[ecfresh]

He can be worried about Covid

[Iron_Man]

You also like trans and you liked that guys views that charges women to be dominant the other day you thought it was cool as long as it made him happy. I doubt you're a serious Christain

[ecfresh]

‘Guys views that charges women to be dominant’ huh?

[Iron_Man]

He's a Male prostitute this was like 4 or 5 days ago I saw you talking to him in his question

[ecfresh]

Oh, ha ha I read ‘that guys’ meaning all guys views. Does it matter if you are sure that I am a serious Christian? I know I’m good with Jesus and my belief in God is the most important relationship in my life. We can have a discussion about our different standpoints on individual issues but what I believe is you only think ‘serious Christians’ must share the exact same views on every aspect of life. I choose to love people and choose to believe Christians can be liberal or conservative, men or women, pro life or pro choice. Until you choose to be open to the fact that we are all children of God who gives us free will to think differently a discussion between us is pointless. But I’m confident sometime in the future you will again bring up this topic so until then I say peace be to you brother in Christ.

[Iron_Man]

They can be a Democrat or Republican but they should share the same views on subjects such as Homosexuality and pro life and other stuff

[ecfresh]

We will agree to disagree. Thanks for keeping it real

[Iron_Man]

Keeping it real is always good

[Gwenhwyfar]

He is losing interest. How old is he?

[Asker]

He is 31

[Gwenhwyfar]

He’s totally losing interest

[Iron_Man]

You should be married first and you shouldn't be doing that during the Coronavirus

[promqueenwannabe]

Why does it matter if they’re married?

[Iron_Man]

Read my conversation below

[andy530]

He’s probably not mentally aroused enough.

[jimmy2]

Hummm sounds like he not right