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What Further Can She do for those Guys Who have already seen her?

I am from Philippines and as I Previously asked a question about My Mom's issue with those Guys who tease and harras her, Mom Runs a Grocery store ( which is only Source of her income) in a Cheap and Shabby part of the Town, there are a Gang of 25-30 Guys Who sells illegal drugs and That Gang have Nexus with Policeolice too.

Unlike other Philipino Women, Mom has got huge boobs and she gets lots of unwanted Attentions of those Guys, they often tease and Molest her on the way, When police didn't help her much, then Mom is trying to sell her shop and buy New Shop on a better location of the City but it will take Couple of Months because it's expensive, So Until Mom relocate her Shop, She needs to wear something that could make her boobs looks Smaller, People have Suggested for her to wear Sports bra or Minimizer bra or Chest binders with loose clothes, She is trying to do this but issue is that, those Guys have a big Gang and 4-5 Guys have already seen her and they had torn her blouse and bra off So those Guys know she has big boobs, So even When Mom is trying to wear tight bra and loose clothes to hide them, it works and help her with other Guys of that Gang but it is not helping with those 4-5 Guys Who have already seen her, When they see Mom, they get to know that she is trying to hide her big boobs by some Specific bra, What she Can further do here for those 4-5 Guys?
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Can she still try some more specific bra like Minimizer bra or chest binders with other loose clothing, If this could work against those 4-5 Guys who have already seen her.
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  • If they have someone covering for them jn the police it's quite the nasty issue. I'd still suggest going through the legal or public-outrage way.
    By that I mean she should try to record one incident in which they molest her and use the evidence to either incriminate them or bring them to a reliable news organization (either local or not) for them to help her out (they'll get a nice story to cover, so they should be happy to help)
    In either case, if you can make enough commotion, whoever is covering for them probably won't be able to anymore

    Another, milder and more passive, way is to make sure to never be alone: either walk around with friends or family or frequent only public (possibly crowded) spaces

    • Thank you for your opinion, Yeah Those Guys work for a Gang who sells illegal drugs ( Shabu) across the City and they have Some Sort of Nexus with Police, May be they get bribes from them, that's why Police is not helping her that much, You know what? Those Guys Tease and Molest her very Suddenly, Mom gets Scared and she hardly have any chance to record it, they even try to disrobe her from up her waist, So Mom just try to Struggle and push them away So getting evidence is difficult and they won't let her do, Like you suggested Mom has started using Crowded Route to not give them chance and also she has started wearing Strong and tight bra which they Can't remove easily, it has helped her but Still they chase and try to Molest her.

    • I know recording can be difficult, but it can be the nail in the coffin for this sort of acts. Without knowing her specific circumstances, my suggestion would be to have a small recorder on her (recorders are quite easy to disguise, or she can use her phone) and activate it as soon as she goes out. Having to activate it once the harassing begins is troublesome and may skip some context. In case she does use a recorder, she should also be as verbose as possible, so that the recording leaves as little wiggle room about what happen as possible

    • But then again, you're dealing with criminals, so whatever you do, do it with caution! No need to expose your plans until you're in a steel barrel (meaning you're sure all your cards are ready to be played and they can't do anything about it or to you)

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  • Guys like that will not stop now that they have seen her they are outside of authority there is nothing you can do until you can move with nothing to fear they will not stop until you move try not to anger them or know when you are moving they will escalate the matter

    • thanks for your opinion, Mom is trying to sell her shop and Arrange more Money to move to a batter location but it Might take couple of Months, Mom has also started wearing Sports Bra and loose clothes but it will not helping her in-front those Guys who have already seen her, Why do you think they will escalate the matter when she will move to other place?

    • It's about terror and control if they think they will lose it they will have to show how tough they are they will not want you to leave they are used to taking what they want and be very careful because they have probably murdered a few people I spent three years Tracking and stopping guys like them full of hate and anger just be careful and let us know what happened

    • you made me Scared and worried, We don't have any hostility with those guys, they are who tease and molest Mom and when Nothing help then only option left is to move away from them, Mom will try to keep it secret and not let them know she is moving but they might get to know from others.

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  • This sounds really rough man, I feel really bad for the both of you. I understand that she can't really defend herself because they're gang members and they're dangerous and provoking them could just make things work. If you don't mind me asking what all have they done to her? I would say that maybe if she got a boyfriend the guys might back off but that's trouble some because that means she'd have to find a good guy and there's still 4-5 guys that would have do be dealt with. She could try to make herself look ugly with make up but that probably won't make her feel good about herself. If you're able to you could also try to get a job to move the process of her moving shops long.

    • Thank you for your opinion, I am from Philippines and My father was a fisherman who died when his boat sunk in deep Sea Some years Ago, Mom didn't have Money So she had to run a grocery shop in a cheap and shabby part of the City, Unlike other Philipino Women, Mom has big boobs from the beginning So she would get unwanted attention of Guys always but it didn't bother her, but Some Months ago 2-3 Guys noticed Mom and they started chasing and teasing her, Those Guys have a big Gang Who are Criminals, after Some weeks Some other Guys of that Gang also started teasing and Molesting her, they target on her boobs, One Month Ago once When Mom tried to resist and fight back with them, they got furious and they Scuffled with her and they ripped her blouse and bra off and Molested her badly, Mom Complaint to Police but they didn't help her much, After this All Mom started wearing Sports bra and loose clothes to make her boobs looks Smaller, it helped her to avoid getting further Attentions of other Guys of that Gang but there are 4-5 Guys Who are chasing and Molesting her from the beginning, they already know that she has big boobs So wearing Sports bra is not helping her Against those Guys, I don't know if Mom wants to have a boyfriend or Not, May be a boyfriend can protect her but he Will have to fight with Those Guys, When nothing is Working then as a last option Mom is trying to relocate her shop to a better and safe location of the City, but it will be expensive and Mom's financial situation is not Good, So it will take Couple of Months to arrange Money to move to other Safe place.

    • Are you able to get a job to help support her right now?

    • Not Right Now, I am studying in College and on Wednesdays I go to early in the Morning and I return in afternoon.

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  • Well tbh whatever she wears is not going to help her with those guys as they know and seen her already.
    The only thing she can do now is to get a bit aggressive towards them verbally but not physically coz they can harm her
    Or there's another way of going about it... they come to tease and tease more when they see she is defensive and gets irritated so they enjoy it n keep doing it... if she takes away their fun i think they will loose interest in her... like she can say "oh there you are... need a peek at my tits... just wait a bit let me get free and you can see them" etc. she has to be brave about it few times and i think that will do

    • thank you for your Opinion, You know what? Mom has started wearing clothes carefully, she has started wearing Sports bras and other loose shirts and it has helped her little bit with other Guys but there are 4-5 Guys Who have already seen her and they know that she is trying to hide them So they still tease and Molest her, if Mom had worn these tight bras and loose clothes from the beginning then She would not have been in this Situation, And As you mentioned she needs to be brave but Mom is quite timid women and she gets Scared when she see those Guys, And what ever you have suggested for Mom to speak boldly and bravely but here those Guys speak to her like, Why are you hiding your big boobs... etc? So Mom becomes more Nervous and scared Instead of being Aggressive towards them, She is bit chubby So she has also started doing Some Work- out and Diet Control to Get Slim but it will take Some time to get results.

    • Well yes thats exactly what I was saying... when they say why are you hiding your tits... she can say oh you know its not allowed to go topless but come here you can see them... something that sort

    • Yeah, You are right She really need to face them bravely and boldly, they know she is timid and embarrassed that's why they tease her more badly, Mom is still thinking to wear more specific clothes to hide her boobs but Now when they know about her it's won't work, She have one more option for Surgery to reduce the boobs size but it will quite expensive and she can't afford it cost Right Now.

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  • That horrible thing to experience and continue to live with. Until she moves what about makeup to make it look like she has worts , red spots or something else that can make less appealing

    • Thanks for your opinion, Yeah she has stopped looking attractive and also wearing tight Sports bra to avoid getting further Attentions but still those 4-5 Guys Continuously Teasing and Molesting her, For a Woman it's really difficult to make herself looking ugly.

    • I get that spots, worts, smell are just some examples of things that can turn someone off but there are no guarantees. A pig will always be a pig, sorry there nothing more to be done. Maybe a spiritual person can escort her to and from work

  • To be honest your mom should carry a gun for protection on her

    • Thanks for your opinion, getting a Gun is difficult here and also it can provoke them and it might put her in more danger because those Guys are Criminals and they also have weapons.

    • Look, your mama is gonna hafta grow a pair and stand her ground or back the fuck down completely. It doesn't sound like theirs any more time to guess on it. Give your mama lots of confidence and tell her she's standing up for more women then just herself. Women fucking everywhere. I'm one of them. #Rape victim

    • @ApplePieHi I am sorry to hear about you, You saying right that Women Shall stand up for herself but I am from Philippines and let alone laws and police even Neighbors are Not much Supportive, Those Guys are Criminals and they too carry weapons, So if Mom try to fight back Alone then they Can go farther and it Could be Worst.

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  • Help me understand better : which part of Philippines is this? Is this your home town?
    Province, city, barangay?

    • Thanks for your opinion, I live in Mandaluyong City in Philippines, We live in its outskirts which is cheaper than to the Main City.

  • What about her getting a tazer or something else to defend herself? Get her a licence or a warrent aor whatever you need, and then maybe she will scare them off with her weapons. No one likes getting tazed.

    • thanks for your opinion, She has bought peeper spray to distract them, i am not sure sure about tazer gun, they are criminals and dangerous and they tease her in groups So i don't want Mom to fight with them alone, it can endanger her life, Since she has started wearing ports bra it has helped her with other Guys but only problem is with those 4-5 guys who have already seen her.

  • I hate stories like this because I can't stand guys who have no self-control and no respect. Some people were born without arms and legs and some people born with both some people were born with big boobs and some with none. it's unfortunate that she lives in a bad part of town or works in a bad part of town and that some bad actors have taken notice of her. I wish there was something I could do or say but like you pointed out it's kind of hard not to notice and some of those bad guys have already noticed

    • Thanks for your opinion, Mom didn't have enough money that's why she had to take a Shop in the Cheap and Shabby part of the town, She has big boobs So usually people notice her easily but it was not an issue with her until those Guys of that Gang Saw Mom and they started chasing and teasing her, Once they even tore her blouse and bra off too, When police didn't help her much then Mom started wearing tight sports bra and loose clothes to hide her big boobs but it didn't help her Against those Guys who have already seen her because they know she is just trying to hide them.

  • I read that the problem is only with these guys who know them. Here she should buy an electric shocker, if these boys get too close, she should give these boys an electric shock. They only do this once and the boys have already understood that their breasts belong to your mother and are not available from other unwanted boys.
    Unfortunately, your mother has to act roughly, but it has to be effective.

    • She has bought peeper spray but not sure if electric shocker is easily available here, Yeah Although there are 25 to 30 Guys in the Gang but Mom has mostly issue with only 4-5 Guys who knows about her big Size and even when she is trying to wear tight bra or other loose clothes Still they chasing and teasing her.

    • This can be dangerous cause they can be more aggressive after...

    • Pepper spray seems like a good temporary solution, but once used they may come prepared next time (if they're that persistent)

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  • If she is your mother then it's your duty to protect her from that bad gang and u should leave that town immediately without wasting any single minutes u know and yeah one more thing that whatever she wears is not going to help her with those bad guy's as u know already ok so u need to protect your lifeline I'm mean your mother and u should fight with them bravely or u need to find a proof or add a video to social so that anyone can help u ok

    • Thanks for your opinion, We are having financial issue So Mom is trying to arrange money to buy a New shop on a better location of the City but it will take some time, Since she has started wearing tight fitting Sports bra it has helped her to avoid getting further attention but those 4-5 Guys who already know about her big boobs size, they are still chasing and teasing her, So for Mom it's difficult to face them, those Guys have a big Gang and they are Criminals So i don't want to fight and don't want Mom to fight with them, it can endanger her life too.

    • U r right but u should take some actions na and what about police why u not informing them?

    • Dear, did you Really read My question? Mom has already reported to police but they didn't help her much !

  • Well, if the police does nothing, you could ask some male relatives to threat these guys. Otherwise I don't see what else you can do.

    • I don't have much male relatives, I have a Uncle who live in other City but he is totally useless, So I don't know what can I do, Also Those Guys has beaten me badly when I tried to Go with Mom to her Shop, they have threatend me to kill me if they Saw me Going out with Mom, So I am Scared and Worried, Only option left with Mom is Surgery to reduce her boobs Size but it's quite expensive and She Can't afford it Cost right Now.

  • Omg awful... I don't know if it would really help in the long run, but I know from personal experience that a swift kick to the balls would certainly make her feel better ;-)

    • Thanks for your opinion, but those Guys have a big Gang and they are Criminals, So kicking them in balls Can provoke them and Could endanger Mom's life !

  • I think she has to try to defend herself and push them away or just threaten them by calling the police or just move from there if u can

  • She should learn so self defense techniques and cluck the pictures of those guys and ADVERTISE THEM ON THE WHOLE TOWN or neighborhood so that people will stand up for your mom. Keep bothering the police don't let it be taken lightly by them.

    • thanks for your opinion, i didn't want Mom to fight back with them as it can be dangerous for her, but problem is that Mom has started wearing tight bra and loose clothes, So She is no getting attentions of other Guys of that Gang but those 4-5 Guys who have already seen her all, they still not leaving and teasing her, She can't hide those thing which they already know about.

    • Based on what you have stated she needs selfie defense classes ASAP. The cloths will only help till words spreads. And sorry to say but she needs to not be alone at her store till she feels she can handle a fight herself. And that will take a while.

    • @Knuxx I agree that Mom shall learn self defense techniques but I don't want Mom to try a fight with them because they come in group not alone So it might endanger her life too, last time Mom tried to resist and fight back, this provoked them, they Scuffled with her and tore her blouse and bra off, So she shall not fight Until she is alone.

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  • In reading your post.

    Start a "GoFundme" account and raise the money from people who don't understand your environment and fail to see the culture you and your mom are living in.
    The sooner you start it, the faster you will remove your mom from the environment you are describing.

    • thanks for your opinion, do you really thing people will do charity? i don't think so even people in my country hardly donates Money, here in Philippines we have lots of refugee shelters people are sleeping even on roads, And for those who don't understand culture and environment probably because they live in US or Europe and they compare there system to us which is not okay, and also i tell you there are many women in even my country who are suffering even more than my Mom but No body cares, Anyway Mom will relocate her shop in couple of Months but till then she will have to do something, She is Mostly being troubled by those 4-5 Guys who already know her even wearing sports bra and loose clothes is not helping her in-front them.

    • Everyone who truly believe the positive opinions on here will follow through with a financial donation, if they can. That goes for everyone who told you to involve the police or law enforcement, believing they will prevent this from again happening "in the Philippines". Goes for everyone who made a comment on how it is not typical for "men in the Philippines".

    • Yeah, Is not this Obvious? I have never seen or heard a Rich powerful Women being harrased and Molested by Goons, Those Guys Tease and Molest Mom not just because of her big boobs but also as they know she is weak financially and don't have much Support in her favour.

  • I appreciate that you value my opinion, but I really have no experience in this subject. So short of suggesting your mother start packing heat, I don't know what to tell you.

  • If you are willing to move to a new country. I would suggest Canada. A move you will not regret.

  • At this point, she might need to act assertive, perhaps saying "you know. You get much more by being respectable" or "how many times had that worked for you"? Or "does your mom like it when you do it to her? Do you disrespect her like that" or even "wow this is the favorite part of my day"
    If she twists things a tad it might help her. I dont think her telling them she doesn't like it will help. They are bullies. They want power. Sentences that break that power help me.

    • Thank you for your opinion, but I really didn't get your point, What exactly She shall day to them? When you say being Assertive Might help her.

    • She should say... "do your moms know you disrespect women like this?"

    • They are Criminals so Will this work?

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  • It sounds like what she needs to do is find a different gang of people and pay them to jump the other guys.

    This is probably only going to get worse and if the cops won't do anything I would think that's a sign these are people you need to be careful around

    • Thanks for your opinion, You saying to hire Goons to fight with those Guys, it's kinda expensive and Risky, Those Guys might also be Aggressive if they got to know and Can Molest her more badly, There are 4-5 Guys who have already seen Mom So they are still teasing her Even when Mom has started wearing tight Sports bra and loose clothes.

  • Move if nothing is working. Too dangerous to deal with it.

  • She should leave nothing is worth that disrespect

    • Thanks for your opinion, Mom is trying to relocate but it will take Couple of Months because of financial issues,

  • She can't do anything except changing her location. Don't you have man relatives or friends who can defend her? Maybe they can talk with those guys.

    • Mom knows Some people but they are Sacred of those Guys and they are reluctant to intervene into this matter, Mom is trying to change location of her Shop but it will take Couple of Months to arrange further Money.

  • Ok tell your mom to act really really crazy like "that lady needs to go to a mental hospital" and eventually those guy will have enough and leaver her alone

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