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Guys, how do you feel if your girlfriend keeps turning you down for sex?

  • Do you feel hurt?
  • How would you react?
  • How important is regular sex?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It isn't so much that guys have to have regular sex, its more that guys don't handle constant rejection well. If we ask for sex and get a "not tonight" its no big deal we can roll over and go to sleep. But when it happens several days in a row we start questioning ourselves and getting worried. Normally guys are good at hiding emotions or swallowing them and never bringing them up. But when you feel unwanted it is a very hard emotion to hide, even for the most emotionally illiterate men.

  • I've never had that happen to me, but of COURSE I would feel hurt. Sex is important to the vast majority of people in an adult relationship, and if it stops, it's as if communication stops and people's feeling of being valued and respected by their partner goes away.

Most Helpful Girl

  • If my partner turned me down for sex a lot I’d be hurt

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Regular sex is critical to any intimate relationship I'm in. I negotiate with her before we ever have sex that I'm a really horny guy and that unless she's ill, I can guarantee her a fabulous orgasm if she'll just let things start.

  • Doesn't matter if you are a guy or a girl... if you refuse sex or affection 3 times in a row, You don't have a case to stand on when they leave you for someone "you use to be".
    Don't trap someone into unaffectionate relationships.

  • I would feel hurt, rejected, and eventually quit asking.
    I also would probably start to distance myself so I could get out of that relationship, and then start to look for another girlfriend who does like sex and wants to do it.

    Regular sex is important, especially if I am in my 20's and 30's when I am in the prime of my life. The hormones are flowing at full throttle!

  • What is her reason?

  • If only 1 girl will ever say "i'm not in the mood" i will send her out of my house and say " i'm olso not in the mood to suport you're inconvenience."

    • Wow.

    • the only excuse for no sex is to give birth to a child, any other reson is a stupit invention, sex have a lot of benefict for head pain for period as well, it calming down the pain.

  • After a while its very annoying and men might loose interest. Think it's purely about the fact that they start to think they are not wanted or anything else

  • It's pretty discouraging. It wears on you, after a while. You feel undesirable if it goes on for too long.

  • Getting rejected happens. Sometimes the girl (or guy) might not be the mood at that time, it doesn't necessarily mean they don't like you or want to fuck you.. just not at that moment. It hurts a little, but you gotta be respectful and just go jerk off or simply wait for another day :)

  • Hurt and rejected. It will lead someone like me to stop asking and eventually break up. Especially because of the kind of guy i am, i do my best to take care of all of her needs, if my needs aren't being met it means that the relationship is all one way, and i can do better. Thankfully my wife rarely tells me no, unless she is sick or hurting or something.

  • Depends on the reason, it wouldn't bother me too much.
    Maybe after about a few months I might grow concerned that its related to another issue.

  • Like someone's gonna get dumped.

  • Feels like an impending breakup, is how it feels.

  • That depends on the situation with the guy. Some guys are very abusive and overpowering to their girls, others are more chill. How often the sexual activity is taking place also matters.

  • If a woman uses sex as a weapon, a man needs to dump her immediately.

  • Sex is very very important to me I'd give up after awhile I might go a month or just a week or two but not to Damn long I'd don't think it would be more then two monts for me.
    God Bless

  • I’m sure she has a reason
    Whatever that is

  • Bye... I'll go be with someone who wants to have sex with me.

  • Sexual frustrated for one.
    Deeply rejected and unwanted for two.
    Third that she’s indifferent to making me happy.

    if regular sex isn’t possible for some reason I can wait pretty easily. But being sexually rejected on a frequent basis is much different and is crushing to the relationship.

    • I have the exact same going on, I want to almost break up but do t Wana be the guy that broke up from lack of sex.

    • @purplejam101 as a guy in a sexless marriage: do it. be that guy. it's not a matter of you or her being wrong, it's just being incompatible. She could try a little harder, but if there's a huge gap in sex drive, just find someone else.

  • That's when he will find someone else... If he can't get it from you he will get it from someone else... And you will saying he is cheating when you will find out.

  • A little but I'm used to it

    • My wife she never wants to have sex anymore

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