Does Body Count Matter?

I just wanted your personal experiences dating someone with a high/low body count.

Is there in fact something I should worry about dating a girl with a high body count, or is it simply superstitious mumbo jumbo that girls with higher body counts cheat more on average.
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  • I feel that whether it matters or not heavily relies on the circumstances and rather how extreme the case actually is. If someone went in and out of different legitimate relationships and happened to have sex with them, I feel that there should be some sort of respect because they waited until they got into more serious relationships. On the other hand, there's a difference if someone had the same body count but none of them were actual relationship partners but rather hook-ups.

    I feel that purity is more reliant on whether you're committing into a serious relationship before sex rather than doing it or not doing it. There are people to this day who still judge women for a lack of worth due to no "purity," which I believe is absolutely BS. I believe that body count shouldn't be a big deal unless it was out of random hook-ups because if that's the case, I believe that you'd just be another tally on her count.

    I believe that finding out whether someone is worth it is by understanding their past relationships and romantic history. Did they just dump their past partners? I can't really say that someone is worth more or less dependent solely on their body count. Body count is just a number unless it's really extreme.

  • To me body count matters. I think sex is a pretty big connection in a relationship and if the guy has slept with a lot of girls, it just feels like I'm another tally. Like he doesn't take it seriously or he can't commit.
    Everyone has their stance on this though.

Most Helpful Guys

  • This has become a very politicized topic lately. I can only tell you what my experience is and I hope it helps you. After dating many women with varying body counts my experience is that the ones that are higher are far more likely to lie and cheat. They are far more likely to play mind games, start fights and shit test. They are also far more likely to lie about the paternity of a baby when they are pregnant (my buddy dodged a bullet there!).

    Anyway that is my personal experience, I hope this helps!

  • High body count indicates that you will join that count and be just that. Low body count means if you actually manage to get into a sexual relationship with her that it got better odds to last. Neither of these must be the case but that is what the statistics says. So it give you an idea of the odds and if it's worth pursuing.

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  • When it comes to sexual history, don't ask, don't tell.

  • To me, it tells me several possible things.

    A: They have a hard time succeeding in relationships.
    B: They use people.
    C: They dissociate sex from emotional and personal intimacy.

  • Or maybe she has a high body count so she got it out of her system?

  • Generally for me the higher the body count the better

  • it does especially for us guys
    tons of men see it as a mark of shame

    having to many partners is bad for both men and women

  • One of my ex's told me that many of those type of stories came from other jealous and mean spirited women who just wanted to talk shit soooo