Wth is going on with my fwb?

[Anonymous]

So the other night i was with my friends with benefits and he didn’t have a condom cause he quote on quote forgot it was too late so the stores was closed. We ended up doing it and he stopped assuming it was to pull out but he pulled up his pants. I asked was he done now confused. He said yes i asked him where did he cum and he laughed and said in you. I looked at him and told him if something happens you know I’m going to keep it and he said okay. We ended up going to sleep and the next morning we didn’t talk about it but now that i’m thinking about all of this crazy shit is he trying to step out the friends with benefits zone but not properly expressing hisself to me.

[abc3643]

Quite possibly...
Anyway, you've won this today even though it may be for slightly different reasons than the ones described...
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Congratulations!

Your question is today's Question of the Day illustrating that Friends With Benefits is an illusion because eventually one of them will get emotionally involved as if in a couple.

It's not a question of "if" it's going to happen, but "when".

Here's one of countless examples from G@G that illustrates the point:
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Guys, Confusing FwB? ↗
We both started off saying no relationship just friends with benefits and no sharing which means we don't sleep with anyone else. But he cuddles and wishes I could stay the night. Likes to spend time with me outside of bed. Asks how my days go. But yet he will bounce between texting me all day to barely saying a word for days at a time. So im a bit confused, we never set any friends with benefits ground rules like no cuddling or kissing before we say goodbye etc, so those have never been adhered to. He emotionally vents to me and I do the same. I know I'm catching feelings, but is he?
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If it is any consolation, in December 1988 just before I turned 26, I was involved in this intense 2.5 week F W B situation (*) with my roommate. I was very emotionally involved, but, for her, I was just a convenient lay between more "serious BF"s.

So, was I a stupid fool? Yes and no. I knew better, but I wanted what I got into and paid the price. I learned through The School of Hard Knocks just like you are...

(*) This is long before "Friends With Benefits" became "a thing". No one said that 30+ years ago let alone thought it because it would be considered an embarrassment to sink to that level. Apparently, being a slut or manwhore doesn't matter in today's "hook-up culture".

[Anonymous]

He is definitely trying to get out of that zone and impregnating you is the quickest and easiest way to do so.

[kyliesz]

umm hope you did something about it unless you want a kid