My guy never touches my breasts during sex. Does he not like them cus they're too big?

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I have a good body... thin but my breasts are pretty big, C almost a D. I've always been insecure about them since I was young. I never got to wear cute clothes cus I end up looking like a hoe in a tank top. My guy loves just the bottom half of my body. Should I get breast reduction? I'm becoming more and more insecure since he doesn't appreciate my large size I thought guys would pay attention to them during sex but apparently not for me?

ThePityPartyGirl · Accepted Answer

He sounds kinda selfish during sex. Like he sounds more of an ass dude and wants to use you for his own pleasure and he probably won't touch your breasts because it doesn't give him pleasure for his dick. Guys should know that breasts heighten sexual arousal but apparently your guy doesn't care about that and thinks ass is enough... There are plenty of other guys who will love to play with your breasts.

Leila2343 · Accepted Answer

Invite another guy into the bedroom. Your guy will get double the ass and the other guy can play with your boobs.

AustinMan · Answer

Have you talked to hm about it? Almost all men have body part fetishes and not all are breast men. Have you told him you'd like them played with? Have you worn a trashy little nothing at home that really shows them off? As for the idea of a breast reduction, absolutely not!!

Daniela1982 · Answer

Blind guys may not even know you have any. Time to switch from Stevie Wonder to someone with more foresight, and topsight.

Running_Man · Answer

This makes me want to see your breasts. I'm not giving any excuses or reasons, the way you talk about them just makes me want to check them out.
I've never heard this before, I always touch breasts and caress them or squeeze them. It feels good and most women enjoy it.
I've read in a book that breasts developed in an effort to mimic the butt and attract men. Which is an interesting topic all by itself. Feel free to add me and talk about this

WadeDanielSmith · Answer

I agree with Soda12, put his hand on your breasts and try to put your breasts in his face and see what he does.

Maybe he doesn't like breasts or something, I don't know. But try to give him hints that you want him to kiss your breasts and stuff.

Lost_Spark · Answer

No one is worth you mutilating your body, unless for serious health conditions. Make him earn the rest of your body!

ecfresh · Answer

That’s a surprise. What does he do in foreplay or when you make out?

HerLucidNightt · Answer

Maybe he's an ass man?

Reaperbot666 · Answer

don't go under the knife just because he is more of an ass/hips kind of guy.

also there are ways to add or reduce your bust size naturally over time. with targeted diet and exercise. same with most of the female form really.

maybe ask him to play with your breasts / nipples a bit now and then. let him know they him playing with them. in a sexual manner typically gets you horny quicker. if he really likes you then he most likely will play with them.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Maybe he's just a guy who loves butts over boobs, and that doesn't mean he think your boobs are ugly. Just talk to him about it. You should not get a reduction just to please your partners, but you could consider it if your boob size really makes you feel less comfortable.

reptocarl2 · Answer

He can stick his dick in your pussy but you can’t ask him this?

Walrus_au · Answer

Don't do drastic things like that for another person. To be honest, they sound delightful, he doesn't know what he's missing. But if you really want to know why, ask him.

Trooper205 · Answer

Oh goodness! How sad! Maybe He doesn't realize it? Maybe He unconsciously doesn't give your Boobs a good touching up on? Have You asked His personal opinion? Maybe He LOVES your boobs, but never pays attention to them, since He's trying so hard to please You down there?

Wizzbang · Answer

Everyone has different things they're into but the only way I could see him not being into it, is because of the look of your nipples

Twalli · Answer

If a guy doesn't like your breasts and you want your boyfriend to do so, find a new boyfriend. I don't like big boobs, but because of this I don't date women who have them.

Nahid1707 · Answer

Is he your boyfriend?

In_Trance · Answer

Have you asked him?

FrenchyRomain · Answer

not all guys are the same, if it were me i'd never let those bad boys alone

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

No, I think you should find another man before you get a Breast Reduction. There's plenty of men out there that would love to have you just the way you are.