While I was in the Academy. I did not have the time, treasure or desire for a "dating" relationship. I sort of fell into an authentic "Friends With Benefits". She was in one of my classes and had a busy schedule like mine that precluded dating.
*A Friends with Benefits is first a friendship like any other. Most friendships have a common interest, which here was relaxed, sexual intimacy. Refuge comes to mind.
*It was NOT casual sex, hooking up or a "booty call".
*It was exclusive. We were in one because we did not want "dating" relationships.
*It was voluntary, subject only to the same basic rules of respect and consideration that any friendship receives.
*There were no "dating protocols" ("Why didn't you text me back?") or fixed schedules. A simple text or call: "Do you have time for sex?" could come from either at any time.
*It was non-public. Her place or mine, take out Chinese/Pizza and some adult beverage. We did not "go out". I did go to where she worked just to look at her but we did not interact.
*The sexual intimacy was unrestrained. Maybe even better than dating, because that's why we were there. Beyond cleanliness, there were no conditions.
*Exchanging pleasure was the central focus. It was understood that we could propose something sexual and declining was not a rejection, just free choice.
*We could talk about anything but "exes" and "our relationship".
*It was by no means without feelings. There was fondness. You just can't call it love. Looking back, it was more than love. Peace in a hectic world.
*We were not using each other. We found refuge in our private times together.
*A "FWB" is low tension, casual comfort. What marriages should be.
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Should you expect you’re friends with benefits to text you everyday?
*No. Only to get together.
How should I expect to be treated by them just texting when they want sex?
*Like a good and respected friend. And that text can come from either party.
*A Friends With Benefits is not an open relationship or a means of backing into an "official" relationship.
It might help if you not only think about the sex part, but also the friend.
It can be very good for both, if you are good fans also satisfy each others needs.
Are you in a situation like that now?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Depends what your agreement is. Either it's a bootycall thing or having a friendship and using this to have fun. For the second option there should be more than sexual exchange and communication
They are just a friend who you occasionally have sex with. You text no more or less than any other friend
All he is, is a stiff dick for you to use from time to time and all you are is a hole for him to stick it in
I'm telling you now your probably gonna be treat like a side chic because there's no commitment just sex. Whatever you do just dont catch feelings cause that won't end well
you should probably talk about this with that person from the jump
Not on daily basis but regularly would be fine...
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