Do you have any advice on how to make no masturbation easier?

I’m only on day 6 and already struggling
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I’m on the bus on the way home from a friend and I think I’m giving up lol I know it’s only been 8 days which is weak but there are so many attractive guys on this bus and the frickin vibrations are not helpful either
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  • Well I don't think it's that necessary as long as you can control it if needed.

    But If you really want to lower it you should set a limit and taking it in steps. So allow yourself to masturbate at 7 days and then try and go for 7 again until that's not difficult then increase the days between with time.

    • I don’t want to quit for good. All I want is to take a break for a month.

    • Yeah then I would do it in steps. I personally would never be able to just stop for a month suddenly. Also why do you want a break?

    • I just want to see if I can do it. I want to be sure that I’m not dependent on masturbation.

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  • Key is to avoid as much as possible to be alone.
    You can do it

    • Thank you! Too bad we’re in quarantine lol

    • I know right?

    • Yeah lol next time I’ll choose a better time for my challenges😂

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  • No masturbation sounds hard and almost like torture. Lol If your dom has imposed this then they may have a few suggestions for you. Generally though, the best way is to be busy and distracted by tasks, especially those that involve non-sexual things like work, school, family and friends.

    • Thank you!

  • Constant distraction

    • I think that’s actually the best advice I could get😂

    • Crafts, video games, movies, books, exercises, puzzles, research etc. if you want I can list some books that are total mood killers lol

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  • Yeah... tell whomever told you to stop masturbating to "go to hell!!" and to never listen to them again. Unfriend them and remove them from your life. Borderline abuse.

  • My fist thought is to distract yourself, but that's just a stop-gap. A more permanent solution would be to buy a chastity belts, lock it on, and hide the key somewhere that's not easy to reach.

  • Put like chili oil on your hands. You will only make that mistake once

    • I’m a masochist so who knows lmao😂 That’s for the advice though

    • I meant thanks not that’s

    • Lmao don't do it, it will burn for a long time. And if you do milk usually helps

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  • Sex! If you're having sex you're definitely not masturbating 🤣. No I have no clue or interest. And I don't understand why people are taking such a natural and healthy activity and not doing it it makes no sense to me I don't understand

  • Why would you want to make it easier? Masturbation is awesome! The more you know about your own body, the more you'll be able to explain your desires or needs to your partner.

  • It's just about figuring it out. There are so many various masturbation styles, just google them and try them day by day

    • Lol. She said NO masturbation.

    • @Jamie05rhs there's no need that someone should stop masturbating that's why i said so. It's insinct and not doing it only would be a grind human's herself

    • Okay, but it's her choice whether she wants to do it or not.

  • Why bother? I know one day I won't be as horny anymore and I'll appreciate all those times I took advantage of it.

    • Lol I don’t want to quit masturbating forever... it’s just one month. It’s way too much fun to never do it again.

    • Yeah, but why take a break even?

    • To prove myself that I can.

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  • find a habit that does not include anything sexual or that turns you on.

    • mean hobby. sorry typo

  • Depends on your sex drive. Its very hard.

  • Think of an elephants bum that will stop you, If you really want stop
    I took care of my handy tool and released myself yesterday

    • Okay thanks an elephants bum it is😂

    • You're Welcome👍

  • Why don't you want to masterbate?

    It's good for your mental health.

  • Why would you like to surpress something you like and doing no harm but good to you? Nothing wrong if you're young and lusty and just enjoying it.

    • I want to challenge myself for a month.

  • Why are you doing this again?

    • It’s a challenge.

    • For how long?

    • A month

  • Have someone do it for you. I'd volunteer

  • Why are you doing it?

  • You need to keep busy!
    Also What I do is read books, but nothing that would cause arousal. I read history books and biographies.
    Also listening to classical music helps too.
    Also when you get the sexual impulse you do not remain alone in your room, go outside for a walk or a place where you can't.

    Gl on abstaining.

  • Depression usually works for killing my desire

    • Thanks give it a try. I’ve heard a lack of sunlight and sleep can cause depression. Meet me in my room with the blinds shut awake 24/7.

    • It does work, My job is the definition of social distancing i live in a semi truck alone 6 days a week and you people are the only souls I communicate with

    • (I’m aware that you’re joking) I know that depression can kill your libido. I’m not stupid enough to try and get depression for a challenge I’m doing for fun basically.

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  • Jogging 37 1/2 miles in the morning morning.
    Then 47 1/4 miles in the afternoon.
    Exhaustion works. :)

    • Lol there’s no way I could run 40 miles😂 I exercise every day already. And it helps for about half an hour after

    • Ok, I'll be right over. :)

    • So that we can RUN together right?😂 I swear don’t you start -

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  • Try weight training.

    • Thanks :)

  • Don’t even think about it lol distraction is the only way

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