I sext his best friend. Am I cheating?

He sort of deserves it honestly.
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It's just a yes or no question. Stop hating on me when you all don't know the whole story. So much worse has happened to me in this relationship. Much, much worse. You hating on me won't make anything better.
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Wow so much hate! You know, sometimes you get into a situation that u can't get out of? Now that's my situation. I told you all it's complicated to explain everything. And I don't type much too. So just let it be. It was a yes or no question for god's sake!
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Okay. Y'all suck.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Why exactly does he deserves that for you to sroop so low as him.
    And the thing is his best friend is just using you once your boyfriend comes to know of this and he will you will be all alone because karma is a bitch
    His best friend won't trust you cause he knows you are cheating him with his best friend he will always keep that on mind.
    And I think he is not his best friend who does that to a friend he is using you for his alterior motives to break the guy you are dating food for thought think about it cause one fight between to guys and you will be the victim of there ego which you chose ofcourse I would say dump both of them and start a new.. 🌹 I am not hating or judging but presenting you with presumption of a glimpse of future

  • The best way to answer these type of questions by yourself would be turning it around on you.
    If he sext your best friend would that hurt? would you fell cheated?
    Would you feel karma should attack ASAP or wait until he falls in love?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yea thats cheating whether he deserves it or not, and honestly instead of being mature and ending the relationship, uve now forever labeled urself as a cheater, who really got cheated? Him or did u cheat urself out of being an honest trustworthy future partner? I just dont get why people cheat, just end the relationship. Jesus

    • W. e bad things that may or may not have happened, NOTHING justifies cheating. The circumstances would have to be extremely dire for cheating to be 'excused' like the guy refusing to let u go despite u breaking up with him

    • Calm down its just sexting.. that too role playing. It's not like we'd have sex or do something physical in real life huh

    • you lame ass fake troll! Get a fucking life!!

  • Obviously. And seems you should just end things rather than play childish games.

    • Yeah.. it's kinda complicated. I wish I could write down the whole story..

    • Complicated or not you need to find an out instead of deciding to cheat in any form. Turn to family and friends you trust if it’s a situation you need assistance in.

    • Yeah I guess. Thanks for the opinion

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  • It might have been better had you told the details and saved yourself the hate mail. But if you have to ask the question you already know the answer. Why be in a relationship you hate?

  • Yes obviously, u doing to cheating as u don't have that right to hurt someone if u do the same thing that he do then what's the difference between u and him , yes I can understand your problem but u need to take action on that but not like that

    • I guess..

    • What u guess?

  • Sadly yes

  • It is obvious from your comments that you know it is. It is also obvious that there are big problems in your relationship and you should move on. But you don't. Things will only get worse in every way.

  • Yes, that is cheating. If he has done something for you to feel like that is okay to do, then you should probably just break up with him.

  • Don't ask a Yes/No question, if you don't tell the whole story! Seems like you are hiding something. . .

  • I mean yeah it is cheating and openly saying "He deserves it though" just makes you a petty eye for an eye type

  • Yes, you are.

  • Yes it is cheating

  • you are cheating and it’s disgusting that you would do this with someone else’s boyfriend. i’ve been cheated onbefore and hope the same thing happens to you so you’ll learn not to mess around with taken man. If you think he deserves it you could’ve just dumbed him.

    • You HOPE same happens to me? YOU'RE DISGUSTING GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE NOW.

    • And I hope every guy you meet cheats on you :-)

    • you’re the one who deserves it hun 😊

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  • No one deserves being cheated. If you are not happy or think that you can't make him happy, just break up

  • Yup, end things if he deserves it

  • That is disgusting. If he deserves it, dump him. Maybe everyone in this story sucks...

    • Umm... thanks for the opinion

    • I think what we can all agree on is that you should leave him.

    • I guess. But it's hard to let him go. You know, I'm used to him... and I truly feel guilty about the whole sexting thing.. its really complicated

  • Yes you're.

  • It is interactive, so yes. Cheating is never "justified". When you cheat in retaliation, you are defiling yourself. If he deserves it, ghost the bastard.

  • Then leave him

  • Yes, that's cheating.

  • Yawn

  • Yes it is sort of cheating.

  • It's first step to cheating.

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