How do you feel about being the one who take your partner virginity?

Mentally and physically, does it make you feel special? Being the first one for his/her.
Or you enjoy it more since its tighter and more exciting?
Cause I never had sex and I wanna know if the guy I want to have sex with would really feel about it, being the first one who got to see and feel me.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I place zero value on virginity. Someone who places a price on the purity of their sexual organ has too much baggage for me to deal with. They would think the person who "took" their virginity owed them something.

    If someone was merely interested in losing their virginity and wanted someone who would make the experience special, I approve. That's a healthy attitude. I mean everybody has to be initiated into adulthood at some point. And it should, ideally, be a really nice, special and enjoyable experience. It's a right of passage to be celebrated.

    Sex can be joyous and ecstatic, even transcendent. But I'm turned off by the notion that it is a sacred act. It's one of the most fun things we can engage in. But it's no more sacred than eating or swimming or playing.

  • My SO and I lose our virginity to each other more than a decade ago.

    It was a planned vacation and we were in a beach resort.

    I think that was one of the worst sex we ever had. I had the "feel nothing" kind of feeling (probably because of "death grip" during masturbation) and she was pained.

    Through the years when we look back we find it intimate because are each other's exclusive.

    Hence not so much as "tight" or physically special, but the emotional sense of trust and desiring. I think it's a privilege. While virginity is not priceless, its nevertheless not valueless; definitely more than eating and drinking.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've never taken anyone's virginity. I don't think of it as a big deal to take a guy's virginity.

    • Lol thats true, girls are more about it

  • I personally enjoy seeing their reactions. But other than that, I see nothing special

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  • II think any guy would feel special to see and feel that, first or not.

  • IT is a special thing and it is a huuge responsibility. I have never done it when it comes to intercourse. But I have dont it with 3rd base type of stuff. I think it is sooo important to make sure that a lady feels good about sex and has a positive memory of losing her virginity. I especially like to do this with older women who are losing their virginity. I treat them to a nice date. I am romantic. NIce and kind. I let her spend the night and cuddle. No matter how it ends she will always remember it as a positive and happy experience. Long after I am out of her life potentially... she will know that not all men are bad and sex can be special. I feel I am offering a benefit to the world in making women know that some guys are worth it.

  • It;s a bit of an honor but most guys don't have the humility to see it that way. Do it in the comfort on your own place with clean towels at a pace and pressure you're comfortable with. Whatever you do, tell all of his friends you busted his cherry, That's probably what he would do so beat him to punch.

  • I never had sex with a virgin.

  • I would feel borderline indifferent to special

  • It is kinda nice to be the only person, thus far, that you've trusted enough.

  • It's beyond a special moment, it's the setting stone to a million more adventures..

    Research on first times to determine how you want yours

  • Well it depends on the guy some guys like that some guys dont. The only way to be sure is to ask him

  • doesn't really matter

  • No problem

    • Mentally and physically, it does make me feel special. Being the first one for her. I, and he, will be flattered and will feel special.

  • I like the idea but haven’t had the chance

    • What do you mean?

    • I really like the idea of taking a partners virginity but I haven’t had the opportunity yet

  • I dont care it much. Yeah, It s hot. Its good to f**k a tight pussy. But thats all

  • It would be a great feeling.

  • Incredibly honored!

  • It is a very special feel.

  • It would make me feel safe. I don't need any of those STDs; and virgins are the only people I can trust to be healthy.