Was it fair for me to do this to my dad?

[Anonymous]

My dad has always done something that makes me mad, if we argue he grabs me by my shirt and pulls me to my room and makes me stay in there like I am a little kid still, it happened the other night because I bought leggings.

This time, I had enough of him doing this and not just talking to me properly. When we got to my room doorway, at this point we were both infuriated, I grabbed onto the doorway so he couldn't pull me any further and I pushed his back towards the other side of the doorway with all of my strength and with the other hand I repeatedly punched him in his balls. He would have went down from the first strike but I had him sort of pinned on the wall for a brief moment so I took the opportunity to throw a few more and landed all of them perfectly and full force. He tried to protect himself but he dropped to the ground like a baby. It all happened within seconds so he couldn't react fast enough.

He cried, moaned and rolled around for ages in my bedroom doorway, mom heard the initial yelp and fall and came running up to the room and then she got really angry at me and asked if I ever wanted any siblings for some reason like it was a threat if they don't? Why would you even say that lol. Then he went to the bathroom and made dry reaching sounds and puking noises for some reason. Since then, he hasn't even attempted to grab me, or gotten angry or even said anything about the clothes I wear which is unusual. Although, he is very awkward around still and is treating me really politely lol.

1. was I wrong to do what I did? Or was he wrong to do what he did? Can you explain why either way?

2. why would my mom ask "do you want siblings?" In a moment like that? That one really has me stumped lol.

3. Why do you think he is treating me really nicely now? Does he feel weak or afraid now that I've shown that I am serious and I can cause him some serious pain?

4. Would he be okay "down there" now? After a few days surely he doesn't still feel it?

[abc3643]

1. What your dad did was immature.
2. If you were my daughter:
A. I'd give you 24 hours to vacate my home.
B. If you aren't gone by hour 23, I call the police.
C. If you aren't gone by hour 24, I shoot you as a tresspasser.

[abc3643]

Frankly, you're lucky you're not dead. I would have killed you within the hour.

[Asker]

So you would kill someone for hitting you in the balls?

[abc3643]

What was done was more than that. It was a repeated attack against me in my own home. I can't continue to live under those circumstances. Furthermore, there's an innate sense of justice which, in this case, for a male, requires killing. Would you want to kill you rapist? Look, I am not saying I would kill, but the longer she'd remain in the house, the more likely that would happen.

[Anonymous]

You attacked him and that is always wrong. if that happened to me you would have gotten hurt. You're lucky he didn't smash you and is deciding to be nice for civility.

[Asker]

He is my dad lol. He wouldn't "smash" me no matter what, we sometimes get into bad fights but it never leads to injuries. If he did try to smash me with something though, he better watch out because his balls will get smashed again as well.

[Anonymous]

1. You were wrong to do what you did; that is assault.
2. Repeated blows to the testicles reduces your fathers ability to have kids.
3. You assaulted him.
4. Unlikely; it is very likely that you have done permanent damage.

[Asker]

1. Wasn't he assaulting me first? He even grabbed me by my hair and he it was uncalled for to begin with! 2. Well he should know now that if he wants more kids then he shouldn't try to drag me around. 3. He put his hands on me first, when does it become assault? He has yanked my hair back before. He is a grown up, I can't even punch hard even at full force, I have hit my mom there with a tennis ball before and she didn't cry like him so he should stop being a big baby and man up. 4. I think he was over reacting, I've been hit there before and it doesn't cause any damage unless its like a sharp object or extreme force.

[Opinion Owner]

Men are a lot more sensitive than women in their crotch. Testes are highly susceptible to damage. The hair pulling might be the only thing he did that rises to the level of assault.

[Asker]

Well he better learn to protect his sensitive testes then because if he wants to get physical on me then I am not going to just take it. I thought men were supposed to be tough anyway? If it is so easy to hurt them then why do they always instigate the physical altercations?

[Opinion Owner]

Being tough is one thing; having an Achilles heel is another. Testosterone increases aggressive behavior.

[Asker]

Yeah and giving the sources of that testosterone a good punch obviously eliminates that aggression so I think it was the right thing to do

[Yellovv]

Why this is in sexuality section?

[Asker]

I didn't mean to post it here! Oh no how do I change it to family and friends?

[Yellovv]

You can't change it anymore, people think you have affair with your dad..

[Anonymous]

dude. take your fetish posts to a fetish site please.

[Asker]

Fetish? I already stated that it was an accident to post it here but this stupid site doesn't allow edits. I didn't do anything sexual at all!