I really need help with a partner who is a bed wetter?
Then it happened again the next night so she went to the Dr and had a few tests done and the Dr could not find any medical reason for it to happen.
However, last night it happened again for the 3rd time. It doesn't really upset me in any way. I love her and she can't stop it. However, its not really nice waking up in a puddle of pee especially when its someone else's pee and its annoying cleaning pee out of the mattress.
So in the morning I gently suggested that we go to the pharmacy and buy some adult diapers for her to wear at night until it stops happening. I was completely respectful and didn't do it in any sort of demeaning way. But she got super defensive and angry at me and I'm still getting the silent treatment. I actually thought a diaper would give her more dignity than waking up in a puddle of pee? and of course I would absolutely not tell anyone else about it.
Why did she get so angry at the suggestion?
How can I try and gently convince her that she should wear a diaper without making her feel humiliated?
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