Girls: Do you give feedback to your man during oral sex to let him know when he's doing things right? Guys: Do you want more feedback from her?

[Anonymous]

I was watching a movie in which one of the characters says that he gave up on going down on a woman. Here's why:
"Chicks never help you out. They never tell you what to do, right? When a chick goes down on me, I let her know where to go and what the status is. You gotta handle it like CNN and The Weather Channel-- Constant updates."

So what do you think?

[ecfresh]

When we first start to learn about each other’s bodies and how we liked to be touched yes feedback and direction are appreciated. I mean while it’s fun to explore and rely on experience if she knows what gets her deeply turned on then I want to hear it. Once we have had some sessions I still want feedback but get that paying attention to her moans, the way her body moves. If she wants to tell me I am open ears but if she wants to sink into a naughty fantasy then I ‘have a job to do’ and I go down there for a while and enjoy myself giving her oral.

[Asker]

That's so true. A lot can be said for feedback given through sounds and bodily responses.

[MannMitAntworten]

Well... you have to tread lightly and know your audience when giving women direction. Some will welcome it. Some will take it as bursting their fragile ego. Some will use it as a reason not to do it at all... and the list goes on and on. One must figure out where his gal falls under and proceed with caution. I have only known one woman who appreciated “direction” and “feedback”. I don’t mind it as every woman is different as to what makes them ‘squirm’ down yonder. I want o be able to make her cum too!

[Asker]

You're absolutely right!

[Smashingdoozy]

If he is in the wrong place slightly ill tell him. If he still doesn't the the spot. Well his face is getting sat on.

[Asker]

Yesss!

[DizzyDesii]

Yes i’ll tug your hair when you ain't doin it right and i put ya head in a leg lock when ya doin it right

[Asker]

Great communication style!

[Guardian45]

I know

[DizzyDesii]

Thank you :)

[Gwenhwyfar]

That totally works. I kinda do that too.

[DizzyDesii]

@Gwenhwyfar i remember my ex was drowning cause i overflowed with wetness the first time he went down and he couldnt get out my leg lock 😂

[Gwenhwyfar]

😂😂😂

[MrOracle]

I ask for feedback if I'm not getting any - but that's rarely the case. Normally, if I'm giving her oral, I'm getting LOTS of feedback, which I enjoy. And that's why, if I'm NOT getting that feedback, I want to know what she enjoys and how she enjoys it so that I CAN get the kind of feedback that lets me know she's enjoying it.

You're already doing the work; why wouldn't you want that effort to be successful?

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, I give plenty - and very loudly with some nasty words! ... lol

[MrOracle]

You go girl!

[aicarg]

I will verbally and physically give feedback. Tell him things like, "keep doing that", "go a little slower"... physically have my legs push him towards me if he's hitting the right spot lol

Hey, communication is key in a relationship!

[JinRavage]

Feedback is absolutely necessary. Oral can be a god awful chore or an absolute blast depending on if your partner shows they are enjoying it.

[ushagomez]

Constant updates? Definitely not, but guidance and then praise for getting it right, most definitely.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Totally

[ushagomez]

@Gwenhwyfar you have your guy well trained too then...

[Gwenhwyfar]

@ushagomez yep 😊😘

[virtue2332]

My girl was bi and she bought a friend home in when I was in the service. Soo greatful for that I learned so much and had a great time in the process.

[Mellontikos]

Yes we want more feedback. We can't feel what you are feeling. We have to learn visual and auditory cues. If you told us it would make it easier.

[LeRetard]

I thought that was the 'norm'?

[Bad_Man55]

Pride is useless when it comes to sex if she wants somethimg or a certain way I wanna know bc my goal is her orgasm

[Jjpayne]

I would not mind feedback at least until we got it right then get a consistent flow going

[darthtayto]

Yes give feedback, thing can only get better and more orgasmic, I want to know how to make your back arch and eyes roll into the back of your head.

[Orange_bb]

No i just look up and understand how should i keep doing it

[DannyFanny]

Not really, guys usually don't need much help

[Gwenhwyfar]

I do give the person feedback

[imjustadude]

I have never gotten much advice unless oooohhh oooohh ohhhh is some kind of language.

[John83]

Yes, if she wants me to do something different, e. g. change the pace or lick somewhere else, I like to be told that in the moment.

[chriscdi]

well i say its better than making yourself look stupid right ha

[Asker]

And do you give feedback to your girl when she's doing it right?

[chriscdi]

i dont have a girl but i probably would if i had one

[Thatsamazing]

Nope. I already know what I'm doing.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Busting a munch on meat curtains is always enjoyable and feedback is always welcome.

[Asker]

Ewww meat curtains

[loveslongnails]

I want to please her, so I don't get upset at all with feedback, verbal or non-verbal... that's how I learn her body.