Perspective : what makes a Man Creepy, Pervert, or Sexually Confident Man in the eyes of Women?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Hey guys i was always confused with women's choice in men and there definitions of a Creep, Pervert and Sexually Confident Man 😎🤔 I felt like the definitions changed according to a women's preference.
So ladies can you make it clear for me like what are behaviour factors you catogorise Men in these three distinctive terms?
@Men feel free to share your views as well

[purplepoppy]

Pervert, a guy with fetish that controls his life or one he pushes on others. Usually something thats considered indecent rather than kinky.
Creepy, constantly makes sexually charged comments and innuendos that are inappropriate for the relationship level. Generally gets the flirting level wrong or persists even though she isn't positively responding.
Sexually confident, doesn't have hangups about his penis or performance anxiety. Doesn't rely on cliched chat up lines, knows how to flirt without sounding desperate.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Very well explained👍

[DizzyDesii]

he's creepy/pervy when he's 5+ years older then me. I know it may be a stretch but in general 10+ years is super creepy. Its just weird honestly. Like stop flirting with me old man. For me, he's sexually confident when he shows more dominance in the bedroom than submission

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I am sorry but I would like to disagree with you it's more like your prefrence its funny actually 😂 I have so any couples happy and living having 8+yrs of age gap I know it's your opinion but calling them creepy that too only 5years of age gap doesn't seem fair

[DizzyDesii]

Its fair cause its my preference. Imagining a 10 year old looking at a baby like YEA WHEN YOU GET OLDER IM GONNA TAKE YOU DOWN... hella creepy

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Nobody looks at a baby and says that i do agree 10 years is lot of gap its perhaps not thd age but thd personality or a soul of person and I am talking 5yrs of gap you would be still relatable but you are right in your own way

[DizzyDesii]

I would prefer us to both be under 30 when i have my first kid so no thanks

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Still that would be almost 5 years, a year wouldn't make much difference it's fine I get I understand. But ddfinetly 5yrs gap is not a creepy guy it's an average age gap thanks for input 👍

[DizzyDesii]

Not for me but i hear ya

[Aakash_Hangargi]

😂😂😂👍🌹

[Dargil]

A seductive guy and a creepy guy can want exactly the same things but the seductive guy induces her to want to give them to him.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

But the thoughts are same how does he make them to see the difference?

[Dargil]

By having a persuasive personality and making it about her and not him. How he wants her to feel and that he can do that for her.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I am asking too many questions but can you give an example

[Dargil]

"I want to give you oral sex. You will feel loved like nothing else can. You will feel a flood of sensation but it will be soft, relaxing and nurturing and end in a deeply satisfying orgasm."

[Dargil]

Women want to feel loved, not vanquished. Not pursued. Nurtured. Wondering if your Kama Sutra talks about that.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Kamasutra I Didnot read it, it is mostly the art of having sex when you have already a girl

[ItsTheNephilim]

This pretty much sums it up.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Reality sucks

[ThisDudeHere]

It's pretty easy, actually. It depends on what kind of guy you are when you flirt:
-If unattractive and unconfident: creep;
-If unattractive and at least confident: weird;
-If attractive, then you're romantic.

[archiz]

It's usually creepy when the person himself is awkward, uncomfortable and lack basic communication skills.
Also to be honest looks play a big part in it, the way you dress and carry yourself overall.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Do you think sometimes it has nothing to do with man but decision lies with women how she wanna treat him

[archiz]

No some men are really awkward and off putting

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Well that's also true

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Like what do you think are a chatecteristics of man that presents himself as a sexually confident man like you would say yes for dating him if you can describe the personality and attributes mannerism apart from dressing sense

[archiz]

He has a certain style The way he walks Talks clearly with ease and confidence Knows how to approach you and hold a conversation

[Aakash_Hangargi]

@archiz Thankyou the info has been helpfull

[7771999]

I felt that 😂

[archiz]

Wlc!

[archiz]

@7771999 awee😅

[7771999]

Yeah. #rip 😥😂

[Aakash_Hangargi]

@7771999 what did you feel bruh? 😂

[7771999]

"Awkward, uncomfortable and lack of basic communication skills" 😂😂

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yeah same here bruh you saw one shhh!!! 😂👍

[archiz]

Lol you too Those skills can be learned haha The most important thing into be honest and genuine about who you really are.

[7771999]

That's true. Kinda of hard to be overly honest in the beginning though

[archiz]

@7771999 lol just be yourself Being fake is quickly detected and it comes out off

[7771999]

Yeah. Thanks 🙈

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Honesty hardly impress women at the first hand it's looks plus mannerism later everything else

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Creepy: You're sexual advances aren't welcomed.

[BoxySama]

It's all about how interested the female is in that situation, love trumps everything else

[In_Trance]

It's defined by how attractive the woman thinks the man it. If he's hot, it's confidence, if he's not, he's a creep

[Anonymous]

Creepy: pushy, desperate, unwilling to respect a woman's boundaries

Pervert: he doesn't interact with women, but he looks at their pictures in public, he turns his head to look at a woman's butt on the street

Sexually confident: not the most extroverted man or the man who only talks about himself, but

The strong silent type

[Anonymous]

The only difference between creepy and not creepy is whether she finds him physically attractive.