As someone who has had lots of sex with lots of different men, i have nothing against you and id say there's something respectable when girls actually wait for marriage or for the right guy. Its different for guys although, i know its fucked up to say but there is a double standard, a guy who hasn't had sex is seen as a social reject because 90% of the time its the case that guy is an asshole or not outgoing enough to have a social circle where he has opportunities to have sex, and those guys 9 out of 10 times resent women for not giving them their "owed" sex. But for women its different because we have more opportunities to have sex then men do.
When other women who get on you for not having sex, its mostly because they see it as you judging them, like "Oh, you're waiting for the right guy? So you're implying i haven't found the right guy and im having sex with fuckboys?" which is actually kinda true. I know i haven't had sex with Mr. Right and most men i have sex with are just fuckboys. But yea, that's just my take.
If the person is below 25, I probably won't have sexual talk in our conversation.
But if the person is above 25, I would encourage the person to try it, should the topic arises.
I know sex is a very personal and private thing.
But I try to balance it with adulthood and emotional well-being.
I have friends (male and female) who are over 40 and single and virgins or inexperienced. From our conversations, I feel that they are not contented and appear to be emotionally deprived.
Hence I always encourage them to get married (our culture encourages sex after marriage) or at least have a sex partner. Not being busy body, but out of concern for their emotional welfare.
(But of course I keep it simple so as not to appear as you wrote.)
In short, my answer to your question is, circumstantial. As long as the person is willing to talk sex and I think its beneficial to the person, I'll suggest, out of a friendly spirit
Because some people see themselves as superior to others and try to push their lifestyle onto others. What those people fail to understand is everyone is unique and has their own path in life. So just because someone chooses to refrain from an activity isn’t a good reason they should just start doing it.
Telling them to do it is much like instructing a child to eat their veggies even if the child doesn’t want to. That may be appropriate in the parent-child relationship because the parent has responsibility and has to make choices for the child. But when adults (especially strangers) instruct other adults as you describe its belittling the other person and it comes across like one persons decisions are better than the other one.
It’s great to offer advice and even better when someone asks because that person is seeking help. But just instructing someone when they never asked for help is wrong 99/100 times.
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No, no no. It's not that, that's about me
Who or what is it which you don't care about?
Those people are idiots.
That's more than likely why.
Doesn't matter if someone is a virgin, the time will come when it comes.
Just avoid such stupid creatures who say such idiotic things
It's our life u can be sexual active or not it's our choice
I think people should just leave others to their choice.
It's a bit like saying "have cake".
I noticed your most of the questions are based on the sex only 😂
Because that's what I'm annoyed at. I have other questions too but no one here seems to answer when I ask about programming.
I guess they know what that person is missing out on. It's the same as saying "omg you've never seen men in black? You gotta see it, it's awesome!" Or like "you've never played that videogame?" Or "you've never read THAT book?" Or "you've never tried THIS food". I think you get the idea now.
It would be okay if that's just it but they also say more insults.
What insults do they say?
Uninteresting, lame, boring, too old to be a virgin...
No it is not a must to engage in sex.
Seems like someone gave the same remarks to you...
Yes, that's why I'm annoyed.
Simple. Our bodies have either been designed or have evolved to have sex, pleasure and a LOT of babies!
If that's the case, are you calling asexual people defects?
@sdtabot. Did I say that?
I am asking you. You said we are dessined that way and aren't those which doesn't function as designed called defects?
They are ignorant of the damage and scars they have received and feel they are giving good advice. On a more sinister level they want more people in their sex circuit. I am saving for marriage because I will not sabotage it or myself or bad advice. Virgin marriages last the longest and are healthiest.
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