My friends with benefits doesn't want me sleeping with other people... is this normal?

RoseareRed
Hi everyone! So my friends with benefits and I met last year after getting our hearts broken and we have built a strong friendship since then. At first we both agreed we weren't ready for any relationship stuff, so we just held on to the friendship and having sex. Before corona-virus, I was interested in maybe seeing other people just to live my "single-era" a little, but it also frightens me because my body count is only two people (counting my friends with benefits). I made a slight comment about this to my friends with benefits and he answered that if that is what I wanted to do, we wouldn't sleep together anymore cause he doesn't want have sex with a girl who goes around... Mind you one night I went out with my girl friends and we got drunk and I made out with a guy, I told him about it and he got mad saying that was disgusting and I should respect myself more...

I know for a fact he is still very in love with his ex, and he would take her back in a heart beat. So, this case isn't about him having feelings for me. I guess I am conflicted because I don't want to lose the benefits portion with him, but I also have curiosity of what else is out there.
My friends with benefits doesn't want me sleeping with other people... is this normal?
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