Is being a virgin a turn off for guys?

[Anonymous]

I’m a virgin. I’d say mostly from being a little awkward and also not having the right person to lose it to. My question is- is virginity a turn off, especially in your 20s? I’m enthusiastic, I want to have it when the time is right and the person is right. I’m curious and open minded- it just hasn’t happened.
Also- would you prefer a girl use a toy to break her hymen and make it easier, or would you rather take it slow and do it yourself?

[bluedargonfire]

I don't see it as a turn of either way.
Having a fist time with the right person is something really incredible and can be really beautiful.
Don't want that chance to feel it just because you think someone might not like it.
If he doesn't see your Vagiaty as a turn on then he's not right for you.

[AustinMan]

When it comes to sexual history, it's none of his business. Just ask Mr. Right to take it slow and gentle while you get used to him. Will that work for you?

[Luna1998]

Im a virgin too and I guess its okay, some might find it a turn off but its who you are

[Red_Arrow]

Not a turn off. Would enjoy taking it slow for a virgin.

[Mellontikos]

If the man only cares about getting off, he probably wants an experienced woman. If the guy wants to find a girl to spend the rest of their life with, virgin is wayyyyyy preferred.

[ItsTheNephilim]

No, not a turn off.

[crmoore]

I think it's a turn on. Though I'm not sure how I feel about the hymen part.

[Asker]

I don't know if I really phrased that clearly haha but I guess I’m asking if having to take it slow/dealing with pain is a turn off or if guys are ok with it?

[crmoore]

Different guys will have different opinions but I think it's a very special experience to share, so I enjoy it. But if I had to guess, I could be wrong, I'd say most guys would rather be able to just go at it rather than take it slow.

[COMMODOREII]

Nope not really.

[Shamalien]

Guys like virgins

[Twalli]

I don't care anyway. Sex will hurt you less if your hymen is already broken, but it won't hurt the guy either way.

[OpenNudist]

Your Virginity is not necessarily a turn off to any guy. In the back of any normal Guy's mind is the fact that we may hurt you internally.

[andy530]

No as long as she’s sexually curious and wants to explore then it’s not a problem at all

[Numbnuts89]

for some, im sure it is

[B2281]

Not at all. Guys don't really care that much either way.

[Cryptic-Game]

It is a turn on when women are virgins.

[CloudsOFNeveermore]

No, not at all a person is a person anyway

[Hardpunk69]

i like virgins

[Anonymous]

I'm 22 and waiting for marriage. I don't want to spend myself on a used car or taxi. I want a new unused car.

[Asker]

This type of view always fascinated me. I mean to each their own, I briefly considered saving it for marriage for different reasoning but I feel like narrowing out everyone who has ever had sex because you view them as “used” would’ve potentially caused me to miss out on someone really special. I don't know I guess if I don’t want people to judge me for being a virgin, I wouldn’t judge them for having sex with someone else either.

[Opinion Owner]

I just hold myself to the same standard I hold women. Even the guys who use women don't do that. Ask most of the guys with the most notches and they still want to marry a virgin women if at all. It would only feel special if we were the only ones who shared it. I want to only remember one woman. If my desire for a virgin couldn't be realized, I would go for a one time widow. Because a fairly new car with limited miles is still better than a taxi.

[Anonymous]

Virginity is actually a turn on for me.