Is this a sign that I'm not that good in bed?

[Anonymous]

So I've heard that a lot of young guys can cum two or three times in a row. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years and he usually only cums once during sex and then isn't horny for the rest of the night. Some nights, however, I make him cum and then an hour later or so, he wants to cum again. Does that mean I don't please him the first time?
I have also been with another guy the last time my boyfriend and I broke up. This guy was around my age, 20. We hooked up about 3 or 4 times. The first time we had sex, he told me that he usually cums twice during sex. But 2 minutes into sex, he came and then he kept going soft during the second round and didn't cum.. and it was like that each time we fucked.
So is it just me? Are most young guys able to cum twice during sex if they are really into the girl and if the girl is good at sex? Because this guy said he was able to cum twice during sex and he never did with me. And my boyfriend always stops after the first round as well.. Maybe they need to be more attracted to me or maybe I'm not that great at sex?

[pajamasam]

Its pretty normal to cum and then need to take a break. The penis usually can't just jump back up without a break. So the stories of guys cumming several times in a row is on top of breaks between each session.

Its possibly to cum multiple times if you take breaks, but most guys will lie about being able to cum multiple times during sex to appear more sexually alluring.

I've cum 3 times in one session but each time I had to take a 20 minute break before starting up again, and when I was finally done I was SUPER exhausted.

It isn't your fault its just part of male anatomy.

[Asker]

My boyfriend cums once and is done for the night most of the time. But sometimes, he cums once and then an hour later, he asks for a bj to cum again. In this case, does it sound like he didn't get satisfied the first time if he wants to. cum again that quickly? Because most of the time, he doesn't want to cum again that night after we fuck once.

[pajamasam]

No, if he asks for round two its most likely because he liked it and wants more. If your worried about it, tell him you want some tips to make it more enjoyable for him. I'm sure there's one or two positions he's fantasized about but hasn't mentioned trying before.

[Asker]

So if he isn't asking for more after we fuck, does that mean he just may not be enjoying the sex since he only wants it once?

[pajamasam]

No, it could just mean he is tired. The best way to know for sure is to just ask him.

[Asker]

How long do they need to take a break before they can cum again? Because sometimes he cums again in an hour or. so. but other times he's not ready to go again until the next morning.

[pajamasam]

For me its about 20-30 minutes and I'm ready for round two. Sometimes though I've had a long day and one round was enough to wear me out to the point that I just wanna go to bed. If sex is pretty regular then I highly doubt he "doesn't like it" its just that sex is a work out and it makes you tired, and sometimes you just wanna go to sleep after

[Asker]

I hooked up with a guy and he came within a minute. He told me that he cums during the second round with other girls, but when we did the second round, his dick kept going limp inside me and he couldnt cum again. Does this mean that my pussy just wasn't as good as the other girls he's been with?

[Asker]

Please lmk? Please and thank you?

[Specsy]

It's not because you are good or bad at sex it's only because normally most of the guys shag in alone even if they are getting sex and this makes them to produce less cum and also make them to cum easily and one more factor is romance. If there is so much romance in the sex and you can feel all the little kisses as part of the sex then it makes both the partners to have most pleasureable sex for some more time but it doesn't mean that you have to be in love you only need to feel like doing some romatic stuff with all you emotions in and the result will be pleasing

[AustinMan]

Not a bit. Just go with your guy for now. You might want to try to figure out where his buttons are to get him going the second time if you need them.

[Asker]

the guy I was with during the break up was 20 and before we fucked, he told me that he usually cums twice during sex. But a minute or 2 into sex, he came and we tried to do a second round, but he kept going soft and he didmt cum. Since he said that he was able to cum twice with other girls, I figured the problem was me.. and my boyfriend never really wants to go again after the first round either. Is it me?

[AustinMan]

No it's not you. It's in his mind. Sorry he's dong this to you. Give yourself a break. He's responsible for is erections and orgasms.

[Asker]

My boyfriend also doesn't want to fuck again after the first round most of the time.. sometimes though, we fuck and he cums. And then an hour later, he wants to cum again. If he doesn't usually want sex again the rest of the night most times, does this mean I didn't satisfy him the first time if he's asking for it a short time later?

[Asker]

Does it mean they aren't very attracted to me?

[AustinMan]

Would you let up on yourself, please!! It's on him.

[blutwolfe]

No sounds like guys are just bullshitting you, just tryna inflate their ego

[Asker]

Young guys dont usually cum twice during sex or what?

[blutwolfe]

Guys in general don't, I mean some guys can go a couple rounds but it's rarer than it sounds

[MiamiMadness]

I think most guys can't live up to the hype they claim 😂

[funride74]

Obviyhw seems to be happy! Are you? Anything else is statistics

[OpenNudist]

Throughout my life I have actually always cum twice inside any girl I have ever been with and until this I have never stopped. Until recently when my girl asked stay inside me after I had cum twice. In all honesty what was my girl thinking?

[andy530]

Nah it’s probably not your skill level but just how his body works

[Asker]

Yeah, but the guy I was with during the break up was 20 and before we fucked, he told me that he usually cums twice during sex. But a minute or 2 into sex, he came and we tried to do a second round, but he kept going soft and he didmt cum. Since he said that he was able to cum twice with other girls, I figured the problem was me..

[andy530]

I doubt it. It’s likely the guy during the break was just not as mentally stimulated as other times. Or he was exaggerating how often he cums twice during sex

[Asker]

Okay, so maybe he wasn't that attracted to me?

[Asker]

What do you mean he wasn't as mentally stimulated? Maybe not very attracted to me or something?

[andy530]

I mean that’s only one aspect of mental stimulation. It could have been he had some other things on his mind, stress, performance anxiety, all kinds of things could take him mentally out of the game a bit

[Asker]

And my boyfriend also doesn't want to fuck me again after the first round most of the time.. sometimes though, we fuck and he cums. And then an hour later, he wants to cum again. If he doesn't usually want sex again the rest of the night most times, does this mean I didn't satisfy him the first time if he's asking for it again a short time later?

[andy530]

No it just means he got horny again and wants it again.

[Yellovv]

No that is nothing to do with you, sex is need mostly guy effort..

[Anonymous]

"a lot of young guys can cum two or three times in a row"

This ^ is a false statement. Any guys telling you that are lying.

[Asker]

What do you mean? They can't cum again during the second round. or something?

[Opinion Owner]

Correct, most guys need a significant break before they can cum a second time.

[Asker]

How long is the break so he can cum again? Because most of the time, my boyfriend doesn't want to cum again after we fuck once at night. But sometimes, we fuck once and then an hour later he wants me to give him a bj and he is able to cum. Does this mean he doesn't get satisfied the first time sometimes? Because usually he doesn't want to cum again that soon.

[Opinion Owner]

No, it doesn't mean any of that. Most guys won't want to have sex again until the next day. Or if it's in the morning, then not again until that evening. It's pretty uncommon that a guy will want to go again within an hour. You need to take this pressure off of yourself. It's not about whether you are satisfying him. I guarantee you you're doing great.

[Asker]

Sometimes, not very often, my boyfriend asks for more just an hour after sex. I believe that he cums the first time, but I don't know. If he doesn't usually want more after he cums, is this an indication that he didn't cum the first time?

[Opinion Owner]

Do you guys do anal a lot?

[Asker]

Um, no? What does that have to do with what I asked?

[Asker]

We do it sometimes.. But if wants to cum an hour or so after we already fucked, does that mean he didn't actually cum the first time? He says he always cums with me..

[Opinion Owner]

Because I think you are the one who is always so worried about your guy faking his orgasms.