Nope never. It’s like learning to drive a car. It helps to get practice in so that you know what you’re doing to do it correctly and to prevent accidents. Learning about sex now will help you when choosing a mate. If he sucks in bed and you don’t find that out until after marriage it will put a huge strain on the relationship. Better to find out now.
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pajamasamYoda
+1 y
No, however, sometimes it's fun to tease and let the tension build. Sometimes a little bit of repression makes caving and giving in feel that much better
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RJJ33666Xper 6
+1 y
I don't think sexual desires should be suppressed. You should embrace them. But if you have some very weird and immoral fetishes then you should suppress it
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Agape93Master
+1 y
Not unless your desires will harm someone, ie child abuse or rape as examples.
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Haelaeix123Yoda
+1 y
I think if its extreme to the point of an addiction or if its sexual desire for someone it shouldn't be then yes otherwise no
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fadingmind
+1 y
Yeah that’s a good point. We can’t just walk around raping everyone we feel like having sex with. Addictions are always harmful.
Haelaeix123
+1 y
Thats true, and yes they really are
kevinricXper 3
+1 y
Well if you are having desires, you should try to get most of them out by self help. Unless you have a boyfriend or a fuck buddy, randomly looking for sex isn't the best option
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fadingmind
+1 y
That sounds reasonable thank you
lawhawk84Xper 6
+1 y
Nope. Not at all.
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Hispanic-Cool-GuyMaster
+1 y
No. It isn't healthy for the human body as the body needs sex. You need to get at least orgasms.
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fadingmind
+1 y
I agree lol if I don’t get any orgasms in like two weeks my mood is a lot worse and I’m so easily turned on😅
COMMODOREIIMaster
+1 y
Hell no!!
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ShamalienGuru
+1 y
anyone saying no has never seen a group of un-repressed people XD sexual repression is the pre requisite to civilization
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7771999Yoda
+1 y
Yes. Because it doesn't lead to anything if it's based on lust
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fadingmind
+1 y
What should it lead to and what exactly is it?
7771999
+1 y
It's supposed to lead to a relationship
fadingmind
+1 y
Oh so you’re saying outside a relationship sexual urges should be suppressed?
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7771999
+1 y
Correct. And yes. We aren't perfect. Everyone gets sexual urges. But it's important our society doesn't glorify whoredom.
fadingmind
+1 y
Whoredom. Lol didn’t know that was a word.😂 I’m not a fan of casual sex either but to each their own and I won’t judge anyone for it. What does suppress mean for you? I think it’s ok to masturbate to get rid of it and you don’t have to live with your horniness that way.🤷🏽♀️ Is that giving into your urges to you?
7771999
+1 y
Masturbation is okay No. But it's better to not watch porn if you do. But way better than casual sex.
fadingmind
+1 y
I watch porn sometimes. Do you never?
7771999
+1 y
No. I do watch it
fadingmind
+1 y
If you think it’s better not to watch it why do you watch it lol?
7771999
+1 y
Because I have urges too. I just don't act on them irl
fadingmind
+1 y
You know you can masturbate without porn right😂? Not that I would care I’m just saying because you think that it’s bad to watch it.
7771999
+1 y
Of course. I've done that too 🤷🏻♂️
hari12Xper 4
+1 y
No. Never
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In_TranceMaster
+1 y
Depends on your circumstances
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najekimGuru
+1 y
Hell no. Goes against nature. Tell a maple tree not to shed its leaves.
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Numbnuts89Xper 7
+1 y
depends
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Kathy_Scorpio97Xper 5
+1 y
No cause you be miserable.
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Jason811
+1 y
@kathy_scorpio97 do you feel like "bottled up" bc you haven't done anything yet or is it ok?
YesIsaiditXper 5
+1 y
If it's gonna cost your self respect then yes
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fadingmind
+1 y
What do you mean?
hwvzhssbXper 4
+1 y
let it go man
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Hardpunk69Xper 5
+1 y
mutual agreement, why not?
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goblueCFB1996Xper 6
+1 y
I don’t know
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fadingmind
+1 y
Why did you say anything then?
goblueCFB1996
+1 y
I just felt like I should & didn’t know the question
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