Girls, What you think about what happened to me?

[Anonymous]

Some months ago, in a girl's house, I got carried away and let's say I tried to force her to do something she did not want to do and my hands went to certain places of her body. Before you say anything, I know that I was doing something wrong, but I couldn't resist. The thing is that the girl grabbed my testicles and squeezed, pulled and twisted them violently. I lost my breath, fell to the ground and vomited. I lost consciousness for hours. When I woke up, the pain was terrible. My testicles swelled up to four times their normal size and turned black. I was in terrible pain. I had surgery to remove damaged tissue and the doctors repaired my left testicle, that had been ruptured, although due to the damage sustained it will not be able to produce any spermatozoa or testosterone. My right testicle had to be removed due to it having multiple ruptures. Now, when I try to ejaculate, is very painful and only drops of blood come out and I can't get an erection.
Why do women hit us in that part? Aren't you aware of the consequences? This girl destroyed me as a man, phisically: Deprived from testosterone my muscles are losing mass and they will atrophy. Also, my body is losing bone density. This puts me at risk of developing osteoperosis. A so-called "woman's" disease. Both of these conditions eventually become life-threatening. T
And she destroyed me psychologically: I feel emotional devastated, I suffer from clinical depression and I'm thinking about suicide.
Do you think is fair what this girl did to me? Even if I had raped her, a vagina is meant to be penetrated by a penis. Physically, it wouldn't be so terrible. She would have remained a woman. But the testicles are not made to be abused in this way. The are to be cared for as life givers.
Have any of you done anything similar to a man? Would you do it? Do you think what happened to me was fair?

[Flower7]

Sorry to hear about what happened to your testicles. It must have been really really bad if you actually had to get surgery on them. I'm also sorry to hear that you'll no longer be able to have children. I'm sure that's a big thing to adjust to, especially if you had planned to have kids one day. It's also unfortunate that ejaculating is painful for you now and you're not able to feel any pleasure from it.

You're right that this was a lot of very severe damage. But it bothers me that you feel women don't have the right to attack you in that part of your body. You attempted to do something to that woman that wasn't right and she defended herself. Sometimes when you make mistakes, you have to deal with the consequences. Sometimes those consequences are permanent.

If you had gone through with raping the girl, the consequences of that could have been permanent for her. She could have been traumatized or in pain or not able to enjoy sex in the future. That wouldn't have been fair for her either.

I do agree that what happened to you was an awful thing and I can see how your life is very much affected by that incident every day. From the way you wrote your last paragraph, you seem to have no regrets or guilt about what you tried to do to the girl. You give off the impression that she would have just had to deal with it and get over it. That's really not right and shows that you didn't truly learn a lesson from this experience.

It was a really really horrible thing that happened to you. I've personally never hit, kicked, or tried to harm a guy's testicles in any way. But if I was in the type of situation that the girl had been in, it's possible that I might have done the same thing, if that was the only way to slow you down or stop you from harming me. There are consequences for committing crimes. Rape is a crime. When trying to harm others, you have to be prepared for the possibility of them fighting back.

Think about this similar situation: what if someone had tried to break into a house, but the owners of the house injured him and he was severely wounded for the rest of his life? Would that be their fault or his?

[RoseareRed]

I am shocked by what I just read. It seems to me you were more than just carried away and this poor girl felt she was in so much danger she did what she had to do to defend herself. Your last comment about "a vagina is meant to be penetrated by a penis. Physically, it wouldn't be so terrible" truly disgust me... I won't say I'm glad nor that you deserve everything that is happening to you because that's just not my position in life, but I will say this, you are living up to the consequences of your own actions.

[chillgal01]

you’re a disgusting excuse of a human. you deserved what happened to you. a vagina is NOT meant to be penetrated by anything ESPECIALLY if the woman doesn’t want it to be. you’re lucky you aren’t sitting in jail for attempted rape and/or sexual assault. you’re lucky you aren’t in jail being raped and torn apart by inmates. i’m glad you lost your ability to form an erection. no other woman has to be hurt/traumitized by you. you’re disgusting. you’re a disgrace. you destroyed that woman and deserve everything that’s happened to you.

[rraaee]

I think you're a pathetic excuse of a man. It is disgusting that you think you have the right to another person's body even without their consent. You think you're traumatised? Imagine how that woman feels after being violated by you. The lack of function in your reproductive organs does not make you less of a man but you actions and your attitude does. I think what she did was right for her in that situation, she went into survival mode and did what she could to get away.

[Anonymous]

I think she meant too squeeze them to teach you a lesson, I've done that before and it works! I feel sorry for what's happened to you and don't think she wanted that, but balls are there for women to teach you manners.