I'm a girl that's having sex and mastrubating but has never cummed?

[Anonymous]

I'm 18 years old and I've been sexually active for around 6 months. I have never cummed in my life, not by mastrubating nor intercourse. Sex feels good. I feel the most trough intercourse, clitorial stimulation is not really working much for me. I've tried several positions but there were less than 5 times that I had felt something that MAYBE could've been like I'm about to cum. I'm often aroused and not dry.
I honestly don't mind it, I can live with it lol. I wanted to see if someone has or had the same thing going on? Does anyone have some advice maybe? Something that's not written online yet.

[Soteris]

You are only 18 years old, not to be patronizing but a lot of young girls and young adult women have issues reaching an orgasm at first. It will probably sort itself out by itself in a few years as you gain more sexual experience and confidence. If I had to guess its your subconsciousness getting in the way.

The less you worry about it and just enjoy yourself the best you can the quicker you will probably get over it.

You might also have some rare medical problem that is preventing you but its very unlikely. If you want quicker answers you could either ask a medical professional to do a checkup or someone to see if there is indeed a question of something in your mentality getting in the way.

[Asker]

Thank you for taking your time for this answer. I questioned it if it's about a blockade in my head, but I'm certain it's not. It's a good idea to talk to a doctor tho, thank you!

[Soteris]

Again many women have the same problem as you, most of which is their mentality. There are many reasons for this. Perhaps they were abused in some way, perhaps they are just very shy, perhaps they are so focused on doing the right thing and afraid of messing up etc.. etc.. No two cases are generally the same but most of them clears themselves up in time the more "normal" having sex becomes to them.

[Metlahaed]

Try harder, you only say you can live with it because you don't know what it's like. Once you experience it you will be like WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE?

[purplepoppy]

If you can't orgasm through masturbation you probably never will. Masturbating is the method most likely to make you orgasm especially if it involves clitoris stimulation. No doubt guys on here are going to tell you their wonderful tricks how they'd make you cum but truth is only you can learn what does the job. Look at it as getting the right amount of physical stimulation for YOU plus being right frame of mind. One thing I'd recommend is using contraception your confident in. It's easier to orgasm if your not worried about pregnancy.

[imjustadude]

Have you tried any lube?

[Walrus_au]

first bit of advice, find a better lover, one that cares about your experience.

[CrazyRay43]

I can understand not from sex because you’re young and likely with inexperienced guys...

Do you have any sex toys?

[Yellovv]

That is not your job, your partner need to please you well..

[Hardpunk69]

hmmmmm problem if u can't satisfy urself
a two meter dick not gonna help you
try thick one

[Asker]

lol thanks!

[Hardpunk69]

u are welcome dear my dick thick girls like it

[bigdmatt]

You might be doing it wrong then.