How would you feel if a girl told you she fantasized about you?

[Anonymous]

Last night I told the guy I’m seeing that I fantasized about him and all he said was “interesting” . Starting to think he’s not really into me 😅

[nodnol32]

Quite intrigued. I would be curious to know what exactly were those fantasies about to get a clearer picture about the situation to see if she's into me or not.

[AustinMan]

Have you ever asked him, away from the sex, to exchange your darker, nastier, kinkier fantasies?

[Asker]

Yeah we’ve talked about it before

[AustinMan]

So do it. The best sex I've ever had, period, has been fantasy role play sex.

[Red_Arrow]

If I found her interesting, I would take it as an invitation to get with her

[skinnybilly]

Sounds like it sorry. I'd say that I think of her and dream of her. That is not a good reply.

[Asker]

Your right. That makes sense

[skinnybilly]

I hope you find some one who is just as into you are you are into them.

[Asker]

Aww thank you :)

[skinnybilly]

Your welcome if you want give me a follow. I'll follow you back.

[Mellontikos]

If he did not respond to it, yeah, sounds like he's not interested.

[abc3643]

OK...
1. You are not "30-35". I fucking hate liars.
2. "Interesting" is a way to not say anything because the person (male or female) doesn't want to reveal what they really think because, frankly, it's often none of your business. Males are not Chatty Kathys like females are. We don't reveal every emotion the moment we have them.

[Asker]

LOL why couldn’t I be between 30-35? Why would I have to lie about that?

[abc3643]

Because a woman who is "30-35" would know the answer to this question and not ask it. Either that, or she is rather immature and/or not very smart about human nature.

[Asker]

Your extremely judgmental for an internet person. I hate super judgy people

[abc3643]

I'm not being judgmental as much as I am annoyed with lies and misrepresentations. This happens quite a bit here. Anyway, regardless of your true age, I answered your question. Put another way, unless a man is actually in love with a woman, he will "keep his cards close to his chest". Saying "Interesting" is one way to do that - answer without actually answering.

[QuestionMark19]

Would love it and it would make me like you more

[Dargil]

Very flattered.

[chriscdi]

depends who the girl is

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I had that told me by a girl here that I talked with for a while. Honestly it made me feel good that, it's always an ego boost.

[BobbyC65]

I'd be vary happy. 💞

[Pejtu]

I would ask in what way
No interresting - he definetly is not into u Then

[smb930]

At this point I'd move to the next level. Might as well make that fantasy a reality if you can.

[Wizzbang]

Probably turn red and say "I hope I'm more attractive in person"

[COMMODOREII]

I'd be flattered tbh.

[Compassiondude101]

Well it’s kinda of rare to be openly sexual at a mans face (typically it’s the other way around). If I was in his shoes I’d be surprised and like it :)

[1kink]

I would love it and want to know details

[Guanfei]

I'd ask her to stop making fun of me

[Potatocream]

such a huge turn on! any girl admitting that to me is gonna get me super into her lol

[Numbnuts89]

does she call him a "just friend"?

[Asker]

No , we are dating so he knows we are more then friends

[Numbnuts89]

then what's the problem?

[CT_CD]

Disgusted

[Asker]

I chuckled reading this

[CubaPirate]

Flattered